My boyfriend and me have talked about having sex but I dont know if I should, what if i get pregnant, then what would i do? I am just in 8th grade and I dont want a baby right now. Should i tell him that i am not ready or just do it? We have been together for almost 8 months now and i know that he loves me. He hasnt ever cheated on me and we really havent ever done anything "sexual" so i am pretty much confused.
2006-10-11 01:58:26 · 13 answers · asked by Timmy's girl!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetheart, I'm sure consequences are crystal clear to not only you but him as well. If he asks, tell him that it worries you and that you would prefer to wait.
I don't wanna sound like a strict mother (though I know I will) but sex is sacred and meant for your husband. Even if you are already sure that you're gonna marry him, it will be special to keep your virginity till your wedding night.
And you're too young to have a baby so be good! =)
2006-10-11 02:15:07 · answer #1 · answered by Angie Pastrami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eighth grade. Do you know how much that hurts. (having sex) The boy is happy, and you are in a lot of pain. The boy will then dump you after you do it. Not to say you can not. You are a big girl, but then what? If you are questioning this decision, I say you are not ready. When you are, you will have NO question at all.
This is what happened to my granddaughter. She was also young. It was very traumatic. Please wait. You will not be sorry, and if your boyfriend won't wait for awhile, he is not worth having. Please think about this. It is a life-changing decision.
2006-10-11 09:17:07 · answer #2 · answered by violetmax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything you don't feel completely sure about doing. If you feel that it is the right time then make sure to use condoms or go and get on the pill. You are young, and this relationship is most likely not going to last forever. If he is pressuring you then maybe its time to move on. The bottom line is that you and only you can decide when the right time is and YOU need to be responsible enough to make sure protection is used when you decide the time is right. If you still feel confused about all this maybe you should talk to your mom or a counselor.
2006-10-11 09:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by smartyartygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have your whole life to be having sex I think you should wait. Being as young as you are I know you love your boyfriend but you will love many boyfriends in your life so you want that first one to be special. I'd wait until I was ready to have a baby before I started having sex because you have to assume EVERYTIME you have sex you can get pregnant, if you aren't ready to be a mommy you aren't ready to have sex. Don't live your life with regret and believe me if you are having sex in the eighth grade you will regret it.
2006-10-11 09:03:59 · answer #4 · answered by bratgirl1965 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are in the 8th grade I think that you should wait... You said he loves you.. if he really does then he'll wiat for you.. Using protection is not 100% right.. You could still end up pregnant.
2006-10-11 09:03:18 · answer #5 · answered by Foxxy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh Hun 8th grade is way to young I think you guys should wait a while longer. Think of all the bad things that could happen during sex.
2006-10-11 09:01:59 · answer #6 · answered by MMN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait until you are married. 8th grade is WAY too young to even CONSIDER sex.
2006-10-11 09:03:12 · answer #7 · answered by supernerd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The moment u break, u will loose your friendship and u will be just sex item which is not advisable at your age.
2006-10-11 09:04:37 · answer #8 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's better to be confused than pregnant.
2006-10-11 09:03:01 · answer #9 · answered by Fredrick Carley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold your horses girl.... you don't want to get pregnant at this age....are you sure about his feelings?
are both of you ready for the consequences?
2006-10-11 09:03:11 · answer #10 · answered by sweet cherry78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋