We don't live in the same city. she is studying and i am working. Please think through it before you answer it, because i can't really determine that.
2006-10-11 01:46:16 · 26 answers · asked by cold_hard_freak 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Evening calls are a delight. As for the number of times, once a day is enough cuz if its too much, she might take you for granted. Also, if you don't call her especially in the evening, she might feel bored or lonely cuz during the evening is when couples love to hang out so she would definitely be missing you at that time.
2006-10-11 01:52:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on her personality. Does she seem like the kind of girl who needs a lot of reassurance or simply loves to talk? Or is she independant and can go for a while without contact? Well, I would say a minimum of once a week, regardless of if she's truly independant or not. It's a difficult question to answer because you might push her away by calling her too much. You also have to think about what time you're calling her. Make sure you don't phone her when you know she's studying. I hope my answer helped, and good luck with your relationship!
2006-10-11 08:51:00 · answer #2 · answered by SRS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask her. Everyone is different. Some people feel if you don't call them 20 times a day then you don't care about them or you are not thinking about them. On the other hand, some people would feel you are bothering them if you called them 20 times a day. I want to say once or twice a day is good, but you should really talk to her about it.
2006-10-11 08:49:39 · answer #3 · answered by Billys girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends, if she is a very independent person and the relationship is fairly new too many times could come across as desperate. Maybe three times a week. Not at regular times so its a surprise for her (and no drunk dialling)
Although if its a long time relationship at least once a day.
2006-10-11 08:51:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend works in a different town so i sort of get u i would love to hear from him every day but u can have to much of a good thing so txtin does the job for us which usually leads to a phone call when the time calls for it and i know he cares so id say at the least twice a week its always good to hear from the one u love at the end of the day no matter how it is.
2006-10-11 09:11:53 · answer #5 · answered by IRISH 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many times does she want you to call??? If it is an excessive amount of times, she's insecure. She's busy studying, you're busy working, you two just need to find available time in between, or just leave little love messages
2006-10-11 08:51:20 · answer #6 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should call her once when she is waking up, maybe once around lunch, and another to tell her goodnight and you love her (if you do). That's what my boyfriend does and it works because i never have to worry about if he is with another girl because he is on the phone with me in the 3 major points of the day.
2006-10-11 08:50:44 · answer #7 · answered by Timmy's girl!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend calls me only once or twice a day, but when we talk it's a minimum of 3 hours before we can say goodbye....we also live far apart.
When you miss her, phone and tell her
2006-10-11 09:12:22 · answer #8 · answered by Lady_of_Darkness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
enough time so that they both of you can be happy different city relationship as to have a lot of trust and love to work out
2006-10-11 08:49:56 · answer #9 · answered by shawney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, well if you wanted to really make her happy, at least 5 times a day!
But just once a day is fine.
2006-10-11 08:48:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋