Someone said sex is ok in our out of marriage-just learn all the ways-do u agree? Im a Jew4Jesus-i say Married

Question

"In marriage the bed is undefiled" Hebrews 13

why would u respect marriage if u dont respect marriage-why would u respect one love when u wont put a diamond ring up and a marriage commitment--if u dont respect yourself you will try and work around it-justify sin

Jesus says he will keep u happiest-and then sex in marriage is a bonus-

I repented of my sins-"Jesus im sorry for my sins, come into my heart and help me, be my friend, amen"

He said he would Revelation 1:1 spoken from heaven-"Behold i love you, no matter what you do, and i knock on your heart to come in and deliver from sin, and become your friend if u let me in."

thanks for listening, now im going to do questions on Luke 17 about forgiveness and offenses-if i offended u please forgive me-if Jesus' words of love and care offended you-let him forgive you-it works.

Answer 1

NOW go and sin no more

Answer 2

Marriage is most of the time a fake sevurity blanket for insecure people. Basically, marriage doesn't consolidate a relationship; the relationship will remain strong even if the couple does not marry.

Marriage is another product of organised religions. It permits the church to imagine they still have control over the individuals.

If two people love each other trully, and trust each other, they don't need the fake security of marriage. In all actuality, marriage is but the pre-nup for divorce, since most marriages of today end up in divorce or some seperation of sorts. Some folks are so anti-divorce that they'd rather stay in a destructive and abusive marriage and shut their trap about it !

Sex should be done before marriage, not just for the individual to find out what it is, but also to figure out if your partner is right for you. A relationship (even in marriage) will not work nor last if the sex part isn't OK. And yeah, again how many unhappy marriages are out there because some folks got married in a haste, etc...

Basically the whole religious concept seems completelly anti-individual. They use fear and guilt to keep their sheep in check.

I just don't see how any self-respecting individual (especially women) can actually believe in the drivel taught by organised religions

Answer 3

From God'point of view, the only sex that is not a sin is when it's with the woman or man you married. Ad the you are supposed to stay married to that person, whether you are happy or not.

You are having some problem with your scriptures.Revelation 1:1 says,'The revelation of Jesus Christ, which God gave to him to show His servants what must soon take place. He made it known by sending His angel to his servant John." This is nothing close to what you say it is.

Also,In Revelation 3:19 - 22, there are scriptures abour knocking and rocks and opening doors. "Those whom I love, I rebuke, and discipline. So be earnest and repent. HereI am. I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with him, and he with me. To him who overcomes, I will give the right to sit with me on my throne..just as I overcame and sat down with my Father on His throne.. He who has an ear let him hear what the Spirit says to the churches.

It seems that you don't know where the scriptures are and when you find them, the dont say, what you say they do.I can't say anything about your intentions. but it is quite clear that you don't know what is in the Bible or understand it either.

I hope you take up quilting patterns of birds on shawls for your life work and stop trying to confuse the readers of this forum

Answer 4

Some people believe that an engagement ring is a rock and some metal, marriage is a piece of paper... people can love each other and respect each other without being married. Therefore, sex before marriage is just as acceptable as sex after marriage.

Answer 5

Ah, Mr. Jew4Jesus, it seems your question about sex is just a come on, to give you a soapbox to preach from. I don't think you really want an answer to that question. I wish that I could believe in Jesus the way you do, but I tried that and it just did not work for me. I have about decided that Jesus was just a myth or a fictitious character, so he could do little for me, or I for him. But, hey, I'm glad he makes you happy!

To 'justagran', there is more than one way to be a Jew - by race, by nationality, or by religion, and I personally don't think any of them necessarily exclude having a belief in Jesus. Jesus, if he existed, would've been a Jew and he'd have practiced and followed the religion of Judaism, so how could some other Jew accepting him as the Messiah be a problem?

Answer 6

David,
You are a Christian. Stop this evil and deceptive form of missionizing. It degrades Christianity.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ApnC4dngKeRuGKyqQldbLd_zy6IX?qid=20060723102937AA4N2eb
. It is, by definition, impossible for it to be "jewish" to believe in jesus. "Jewish" is, by defintion, what jews have historically and contemporarily believe. Since in neither scenario do we find "believing in jesus", then we must clearly realize that belief in jesus is not something "jewish". You can call it "biblical" (and still be wrong), but certainly not "jewish".
. On the side, the subject of Isaiah 53 is promised a "long life" and "seed" (i.e. physical children). Clearly this isn't about jesus.
. And Isaiah 7 is clearly not messianic if you read the whole chapter. and "alma" doesn't mean virgin either. You'd know that if you spoke hebrew (I guess it wasn't part of your "extensive jewish upbringing", huh?)
. On the side, Isaiah 9 can't be about jesus since, according to christianity, he's the "son" not the "father" (as the verse states). Nor did he have control of the government (to the contrary, the roman government killed him). And he certainly did not establish "endless peace".
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Sources:
http://www.aish.com/jewishissues/jewishsociety/Why_Jews_Dont_Believe_In_Jesus.asp
http://jewsforjudaism.org/web/faq/general_messiah-criteria02.html
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jewish_messiah#Textual_requirements
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oh, and lastly, I've decided that you truly epitomize everything I find intensely intellectually unsatisfying about christianity. (And you clearly do not understand hebrew.)

Answer 7

I had sex before my marriage and we are happily married. I respect my marriage to my husband and I respect my husband.

I know some may feel it is wrong but I am happy and if I had to do it all over again I would still have sex with him before we got married.

Answer 8

Not entirely. This is not simply a rule in most cases. I'm most familiar with Christianity, so I'll cover my take on its rationale. Monogamy has justifications in Genesis and the Gospels. In both cases, the idea is roughly the same. God created man and woman to be the complements of each other so that one man and one woman unite under God to form a whole. This is a physical, social, and spiritual union. Sex forms a major part of it, and is therefore confined to it. Not only are you cheating yourself by having sex out of marriage, but you are depriving your destined spouse, God, and your adulterous partner, and his spouse out of what is theirs also. In this context adultery is a kind of theft where lives and destinies are stolen instead of property. That's my interpretation, at least.

Answer 9

I don't really follow any religion, but i am very spiritual, and i totally agree with the whole sex after marriage thing, I'm 18 yrs but i am totally looking forward to marriage, and although i have fornicated i pray that god forgives me, keep it up i bet he is smiling on you.

Answer 10

I say that you should be married! If you aren't married then there is a chance that you guys could break up and that would be really bad! When you have sex with someone it should be with someone that you are going to be with forever, not just some boy/girl that could dump you. It is a big commitment to someone and you should be with "the one" before making that committment.

Answer 11

Sex is ok out of marriage .. but I do respect marriage ... as much as I respect choice.


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