I don't know how to approach girls, pls tell me what to do!?

Question

Please somebody tell me what to talk to them about, what they like, I am really bad at talking to them.

Answer 1

Hey you poor lady's man!:)
Here's my lesson:
1) First of all you must look gorgeous.
Gorgeous it doesn't mean to much cologne or perfume and monstrous amount of gel on your hair and expensive costume - forget about it!
-Your clothes must be very convenient & stylish .
Your perfume mustn't be sharp and not for your age , you must choose something what you want , I like "Nature"- Ives Rocher , "Baldessarini"-Hugo Boss , "Paco Rabanne Pour Homme" :)
You must care about your skin ,shape (girls like brawny guys) , teeth, breath and eyebrow.
2)You must be cheerful and funny , maybe LITTLE bit witty
- If you're not funny at all ,then you mustn't be martyr , just what you need to do is to be attentive and interested in all what your "victim" (he he!) says or means.
-You mustn't be abstruse and TOO MUCH romantic , you can be romantic but not very romantic!
3) You must be sure about yourself
-You need confidence and you must be very attractive (from looks till character)
4)You must be yourself ,only yourself!!!
5) Keep on fun kin! Don't worry , if you've problem I'm here!
Good luck:)

Answer 2

You can never go wrong by showing friendly and sincere interest. The way you approach someone you want to meet depends on where and when. For example, at a party, it would seem reasonable to assume that everyone is there to socialize, so approaching a girl with a friendly smile and hello can be a good beginning. Have a good conversation opener such as..."I saw the most interesting documentary last night..." Tell them a little about it but then turn the focus on the girl and ask if she has seen any good films lately. If you are in a supermarket and you see a good looking girl....approach her for advice...Ask her.."Do you have any suggestions on how to cook this chicken" If in school, ask for some school related information. These opening questions are just to break the ice and for you to sense whether the girl appears interested in continuing the conversation. Politeness, warmth, friendliness and sincere interest in the other person are all good starting points.

Answer 3

First of all, make good eye contact. Most guys get shy when talking to a girl, and they look down at the floor (she thinks that you are looking at her boobs, and she gets offended). If you must look away because you are feeling uncomfortable, then look across the room like you are looking for some else, do NOT look down.

Women think that self-confidence is sexy, so when you approach her, treat her as an old acquaintance whom you haven't seen in awhile -- in short, act comfortable around her and act like fun (act the same way you would act if she were a GUY instead of a girl -- she's only human, like everyone else). When you talk to a girl, try opening with a joke about something that she is wearing, doing, or looking at. As long as it is funny, you will look confident for taking a risk by saying something that might possibly be offensive (she is unsure), and you will also seem fun for making her laugh. Is she gets upset, just look at her calmly an say, it was only a joke.

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Answer 4

Well, first of all you need to understand that they are just human beings like you and me.So you should always approach them with confidence that's the first thing because no girl likes a coward to be her boyfriend.
As different boys like different things, its the same with the girls.First thing you can do is at least get started with talking with girls and gradually you'll know what to do next.
If you see a good looking girl just say high to her but with some confidence, if she likes you then the things will move on from there automatically.

Answer 5

Just be friendly and polite and keep the dumb come on lines for the macho jocks who never really score as much as they want you to believe.
Do you know that a lot of girls ask why nice guys never ask them out. Why do all the jerks come up to you but the nice guys hide? I could draw the worst morons in a room and my gfs used to say that the first three guys who approached me where the ones to avoid. They were too. Why don't nice guys talk to girls? Go for it.

Answer 6

Just relax, this is not a contest, you just get to know a new person..be yourself, there's no game, no prize, just a simple relationships, like when you buy big-mac or talk to your friends. You're not an actor and no one can tell you what to talk about, no one knows your role:)

Answer 7

dont talk to much about ur self, u might seem consided. see what their interested in and dont seem like ur trying to get in ur pants, i know thats what i would want a guy to do, is talk about those thigns

Answer 8

Get a puppy. Everyone loves them and you have a conversation starter.

Answer 9

just be youeself. ask like what do you do for a living, where their from, things of that nature. that will get the conversation started. after that it will lead on from there.

Answer 10

YOU MUST INITIALLY BE FRIENDLY TO THEM .LET THEM FEELTHAT YOU ARE A GOOD BOY.LET THE FRIENDSHIP GROW.THEN BE A BIT INTIMATE AND LET THEM FEEL YOU ARE A NICE GUY .LATER W2HEN THINGS IMPROVE U CAN TALK FREELY WITHOUT ANY OBLIGATION .