2006-10-11 01:11:52 · 11 answers · asked by sunny01 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because they wonder if there is someone else out there who is better suited for them OR...they don't want to have sex with just one girl....or guy depending upon which way he swings
2006-10-11 01:14:19 · answer #1 · answered by Maestro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mona. Where were you when I was your age? I hate to tell you that many women try to change a man after they get married, men too.
When you say committment, do you mean as a b/f or all the way up through marriage? Boys and girls need to experience a number of dating relationships so that they can learn how the opposite sex is. How many varities of personalities do girls, or boys, have? What type of combination of personality, interests, and character will fit the best with my own?
I think that in teens and early 20's most people confuse love with sexual attraction and the powerful feelings that brings. I was afraid of the commitment of marriage until I had my career started and was making enough money to be able to afford to get married. I also, had to learn some communication skills and relationship skills also.
I'm afraid that those people who say that if you have "true love" everything will turn out well, don't know what they are talking about. My x-wife and I dated for 3 years and were married for 17 and1/2 years. We both fought very hard to stay married, but weren't able to do that. I thought I had gone through some very tough time before that but I couldn't even come close to immagining how much pain I felt after the divorce and for how long. It took 3 years before I even started to feel human again.
So, if you're in your teens or 20's, be more concerned about learning relationship skills and learning about your self. then you'll have a better chance of knowing Mr. Right when he comes along. Then is the time to be concerned about committment.
If I had known what I know now, I might have made a better choice like mona.
2006-10-11 08:54:12 · answer #2 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are BOYS. Men aren't afraid of it. In fact, the older you get the more the men want it and the women don't
2006-10-11 08:28:19 · answer #3 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are not MEN. Men stand up to responsibilites. They are gentlemen. They know how to treat a lady. They aren't cowards and they are certainly not immature.
Boys will always be boys like dogs running around with their tails between their legs while men stand up with their balls held high.
2006-10-11 08:17:55 · answer #4 · answered by Banana Pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, that's exactly it: some boys..
well, look for the ohter boys that are not afraid of committment..
you can't change a person's personal point of view of comittment so don't waste your time...
2006-10-11 08:17:53 · answer #5 · answered by tdbhc33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They dont want to let go of their freedom of doing whatever it is that makes them tick!They think that we are out to give them drastic makeovers and take away all their fun.I wish they could understand that we are not out to do that!We fell in love with them just the way they are and the only thing that I want is to f$%$@ his brains out every nite that he wouldnt want to look at another women ever again.
2006-10-11 08:23:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means a change in their life and lifestyle and some are not ready to surrender that
2006-10-11 08:13:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not afraid of it, I just don't want it. I'm all about the sex.
2006-10-11 08:13:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't want to get rejected, because it wouldn't look good on their reputation
2006-10-11 08:13:38 · answer #9 · answered by sarahbabe315 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not that they're affraid to...the way they look at it is why settle for one when you can have a variety...and if they commit they have to be with just one
2006-10-11 08:13:54 · answer #10 · answered by Ruth Less RN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋