Everytime I love someone, he always hurts me and beaks me. He even finishes by hating me and he still hurts me every times he sees me. It's awful and enough. I can't take it anymore. The worst is that he makes his friends as well as my friends hurting, it's like he gets pleasure in making me suffer. He loves to embarrass me before people. Even though, I forget him, he still haunts me and my dreams. But, in my dreams, he's always nice and kind. In every of my dreams that he appears, he's my friend. But in reality, he hates me. I can't accept that he hates me so much for something that I don't know, even my friends don't know the reason for this hatred. It's really enough, I can't take that pain anymore. Sometimes, I think that this hatred will kill me because it hurts so much to hear him insults me this way. What explanation do you guys have for everything he does to me?
2006-10-11 00:29:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everytime I love someone, he is absolutely indifferent.
2006-10-11 00:35:31 · answer #1 · answered by Lady G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all want to be needed an loved; it's human. It seems as though you are allowing this person to hurt you emotionally by dwelling on him and his actions. Try very hard to focus on something fun in your life and the painful feelings you have now will diminish. Under no circumstances should you allow this person know that his actions bother you in any way; it will provoke more on his part because he is a hurtful person. My heart goes out to you (I've been in your position) but if you trust my words, you will be able to move on and be happy again.
2006-10-11 00:36:18 · answer #2 · answered by Decoy Duck 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly how you feel hun...
but let me tell u something .. its u not them !! ur the one with problem .. sorry but thats the true .. i mean u did say 'everytime i love someone" they cant be all wrong .. u need to 1- find good boys to love .. 2- fix ur self (i dont mean ur look) 3- whenever he start acting like a jerk do not run after him and say ur sorry when u aint ..4- always keep on ur mind u dont need him to make u feel good about ur self .. relationships are more like who needs who more .. if he found out that u cant live without him then he'll start acting like a jerk and it will be like a treatin " do this for me honey or im gonna leave u" i hope i answered ur Q .. and fee free to IM me
good luck !!
bye
2006-10-11 00:43:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like my ex. Now you mentioned, I think mine hated me for some reasons too. He's got problem with his mom. Some times, I think he's punishing me, insulting me for what his mom did.
Please take it easy....I know the pain you feel. Move on, move on, move on. Don't let him kill you or pain you to death. Its just not worth it. Write more on YA and hopefully that'll ease the pain.
You're not the only one suffering from an abusive relationship. Be strong. You will survive.
2006-10-11 00:35:04 · answer #4 · answered by Nemrac666 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need an explanation. You don't need to know what goes on in his head and what makes him do the things he does. What you do need however, is to protect yourself against his harassment. Change your phone numbers, email accounts, etc., don't be available to speak to him, take out a restraining order and report him to the police for stalking, if you have to. Just get him out of your life already.
2006-10-11 00:41:14 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just don't have anything to do with any guys for a while. Be a while with only yourself. You will see why you keep inviting this sort to hurt you and might be able to fix yourself. Can't fix others or explain them and excuse them. Can only fix or truly understand you.
2006-10-11 00:33:34 · answer #6 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i tell you what . if your heart breaks so easily, when you are in a relationship ty not to give too much of yourself in there. let the other person miss you and want to be around you. try that.
2006-10-11 00:33:26 · answer #7 · answered by prospertaruvinga 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get your life together. Begin by trying to gain some self-respect.
What a guy thinks of you, is not who you are.
2006-10-11 00:33:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
because of the song - 'you always hurt the one you love'
2006-10-11 00:31:38 · answer #9 · answered by pinhed_1976 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a little less self pity could solve all your problems.
2006-10-11 00:31:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋