My man just got out of prison, (he was gone for a year). We wrote the whole time, I was totally faithful, we made hella promises to each other. We were going to be sober together for the first time in 6 years, but the day he got out,he went to report with his P.O. and didn't come home until the next morning! I am totally hurt over this. I was the only one that really cared for him when he was gone but he is going to get out and kick with the people that don't really care? I understand his ride left himat a friends house, but I would have done whatever to get home. I had everything just perfect, and he blew it!When he went to prison I had nothing! Now I have an apartment, full time job, I actually take care of reponsibilities. I love him but I am just convenient for him? Does he ;ove me? Do I give him another chance? I want so bad for him to come back home but he seems fine with his friends, and I don't want him going back to prison (Partying), I can help him stay clean. HELP!
2006-10-11 00:01:08 · 7 answers · asked by tupence65 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look if you want to continue living like this guy lives, stay with him, if you are tired of his bs and you really want to live a good life and not have all this drama, leave him, dump him, because if you keep this "loser" all you are asking for is a life of heartache and a "long trail of endless tears". Sounds like you deserve better than this. Look this guy is never going to change and you may as well accept that. Let him go, sooner or later he will be back in prison, and there you go again. You are not even being fair to yourself. Sometimes in life you get fed up with this kind of nonsense and you move on. Move on and I promise you will never in the long run regret it.
2006-10-11 00:20:42 · answer #1 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
iT SOUNDS TO ME THIS GUY IS GOING TO USE YOU AND WHO EVER ELSE HE COMES IN CONTACT WITH. I KNOW, WHEN YOUR LOCKED UP, YOU HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO WALK THE GOOD WALK. AS SOON AS HE GOT OUT HE DISSED YOU>>GIRL, GET A MAN WHO WILL RESPECT YOU AND NOT USE YOU FOR A LAST RESORT. SOUNDS TO ME YOU NEED SOMEONE WHO IS RESPONSIBLE AS YOU ARE AND WITH SOME FUTURE AHEAD OF THEM>>NOT A DOPE HEAD! TRUST ME, LIFE CAN BE GREAT WITH OUT DRUGS EVEN IF YOUR POOR>>JUST SAVE THE MONEY YOU WOULD HAVE USED TO PARTY WITH, AND BEFORE LONG, YOU WON'T BE SO BROKE. GOOD LUCK AND DUMP THE DUDE!
2006-10-11 00:14:44 · answer #2 · answered by 6ft5inallman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello sorry i just need the 2 points i am down three
2006-10-11 00:08:11 · answer #3 · answered by PETE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No problem go ahead.
2006-10-11 00:12:41 · answer #4 · answered by zily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to have a talk with him about it
2006-10-11 00:05:19 · answer #5 · answered by muthafaka8o8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him and get with me(-;
2006-10-11 00:08:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to ask him
2006-10-11 00:14:03 · answer #7 · answered by Narayan P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋