my man doesnt respond 2 my complains at all...does he feel very bad or does he care not at all??....wat shud i do?....he is my net fren and its been 5 yrs.....ans we r goin around since last one year....i love him a lot....he had sent messages to someone whom he didnt knw was my fren....hse told me they were messages invitin frenship......is it my fault or his??....wat can i do??
2006-10-10 23:41:36 · 5 answers · asked by libran_beauty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
msgs inviting frenship prob signal tt he is not completely happy where he is, and is looking ard somemore... and by not responding to ur complaints, meaning he disregards things that u bring up which u r not happy about? Then that's pretty selfish and just shows how much he cares for ur happiness n feelings...
It's no one's fault, really... it's just how things have worked out themselves.
my gut feeling is that u shld leave the relationship since he doesn think ur needs matter that much. In the long run, u will be happier that way. Plus, there's hope of spending ur time with someone who will..care.
2006-10-11 00:01:41 · answer #1 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it fairly is a adverse thank you to motivate somebody: i do no longer love you because of the fact of X. confident, once you're insecure it would motivate you to alter, yet who needs an insecure man or woman besides? If he needs an insecure man or woman, and you're that man or woman...nicely, get waiting to have a sparkling "i do no longer love you because of the fact" each month. If it incredibly is not any longer that, then maths are substantial to him. possibly he's severe approximately your courting, and is thinking a pair of destiny with you -- and the belief of raising a family individuals with somebody who's undesirable at maths makes him think of that (a) your toddlers is merely no longer solid at maths, or (b) you will no longer share an pastime it incredibly is substantial to him, or (c) you haven't any longer have been given the self-discipline and/or intelligence to maintain his pastime. Be happy he's being honest with you.
2016-12-13 06:13:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that this fella has "other fish to fry" and has no real solid intentions in your direction. It must be faced and you probably need to face the obvious - sorry but he just doesn't seem that into you........
Move forward........
2006-10-10 23:49:00 · answer #3 · answered by Buttercups 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is playing you. Respond to your complaints? It easy for people, like this guy, to not respond to or ignor written messages....you don't have to face people. I think you should ignor him and move on.--just my opinion. I know it hurts.
2006-10-10 23:46:32 · answer #4 · answered by What, what, what?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop him like it's hot.
2006-10-11 00:35:18 · answer #5 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋