what do you think??

Question

I need to make an important desicion and I just dont know what to do. this descision will have a massive impact on my life.

i'm at uni doing a degree.,. I'm now in second year, and I am not sure I want to carry on. I'm having probs in my relationships with family and friends also. I just dont know which way to turn, or who to turn to

Answer 1

So you don’t know if you want to stay at Uni. or not? Because you have having problems in your relationships you feel as thought you do not have anybody that you can talk to about how you feel? Believe me you are not on your own! I am a third year university student and I know that the transition from first to second year is difficult. You have come so far, worked so hard and yet the light at the end of the tunnel seems still so far away. But believe me the end is not that far away, it will go by very quickly and the degree that you have obtained will be very helpful when you are looking for higher paid work. The work can also be very daunting in second year because if feels as thought all the support from your tutors will be removed but that is not the case and they will still be there to help if you need them. Also believe me if you can handle the work in first year then you can handle the work in second. It is not uncommon to feel the way that you do right now and your school will have a counselling service that you can use if you feel that you need someone to talk to, they will be used to helping people with your type of problems and they will talk you through your decision.
Good luck with your future!
Take care

Answer 2

Are you sure you really have to make the decision?

If you are just make it and go with your best judgement. Nobody can do better than that. Don't think about it too much, it doesn't make the choice any easier or better it just makes it harder to make.

Sometimes a dummy run helps. Toss a coin, heads is one option, tails another. Pretend you will stick with the choice of lady luck. Live with that option for the rest of the day, sleep on it, and if you don't like it next morning you can always change.

Answer 3

Follow Your Heart. My x/Current GF Needs To Make A Decision And I Hope Its Th Right One. It Will Change Her Life And Mine Too. You Will Be Ok. Just Follow Your Heart

Answer 4

Dont actually know what the desicion you have to make is but i suggest to put all the pro and cons onto a bit of paper - its good to put things into perspective!

Answer 5

Decide what the consequences both positive and negative are with each choice. Then take them to extremes. Take the choice which has the least effects for everyone and it should be your gut and heart talking. Good luck I hope it turns out fine.

Answer 6

Write down a list of all the positive things that would come from the decision. Then write down a list of all the negative things.

Comparing these lists may help you weigh up the options

Answer 7

You need to weigh up the pros (good side) and cons (bad side) of whatever youre thinking of. For example, if you found yourself pregnant and didnt know if to keep the baby, youd weigh up things like pros - being a mother is amazing, cons - youre not ready to have that kind of responsibility so put it up for adoption. Hope this helps and good luck

Answer 8

Ask as many people as possible that you are close to, but if possible that aren't directly involved with your problem. Listen very carefully to their answers. that way you can say that oyu have done all you can to find what you believe to be the right answer.

Answer 9

Can't help ya if you dont give a hint as to what the decision is between!

Answer 10

Since your problem is too private I suggest you visit the link i've provided below. It will guide you on decision making.