My BF insists me to have sex with him, but i m not sure that i would get married to him. My question is will my future husband will be aware that i already had sex? or am i doiing something wrong.
2006-10-10 22:14:30 · 16 answers · asked by Vidhya b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try it youl like it but only if you want to dont let him make you
2006-10-10 22:15:49 · answer #1 · answered by sleepwalker69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy, I love sex, can't get enough of it. With that being said, if I were with a girl and she was a virgin. I wouldn't pressure her, not only does it show that I would be more interested in the sex, but if her family brought her up a certain way, I would also be disrespecting her and her families values and beliefs.
Trust me, if your not ready, DON'T, there are guys that will care about you for who you are, and will respect you for not having sex with them. Second, if you got married later, yes, it's very possible for your husband to know that you weren't a virgin, unless he himself was actually a virgin, then he probably wouldn't know much himself.
P.S. Save yourself till your ready, most guys out there, will talk as though they're some porn star, but they will probably last a for a few minutes, and then ***. You don't wan't to remember your first time having lasted for about 5 minutes and that was it. Listen to what your heart and instincts tell you on this, not what some horny boyfriend who just wants to have sex with you because your a virgin. Trust me, I don't know why, but almost every guy I know, wants to hook up with a virgin, even if they don't plan on staying with them.
2006-10-10 22:34:39 · answer #2 · answered by PsyChoPath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you are doing something wrong. However, I am not you and do not know what kind of implications sex will have for you. This may sound silly, but the book "Dating for Dummies" saved my and many of my friends single lives.
2006-10-10 22:20:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he won't know but you should wait if you are not sure. it's not something that you can take back. tell ur bf to lay off and if he really cares for you he will if not then u seem like a smart girl and you know if wasn't worth it.
good luck and don't give in to pressure
2006-10-10 22:17:03 · answer #4 · answered by and now you know 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
c baby u can go 4 sex...however for safer sex as u rn't sure to maryy him..
also try not 2 b habitual..
waise my personal advice is that be faithful to ur future husband..jst supress ur urges if possible..
2006-10-10 22:18:13 · answer #5 · answered by tamasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe, only an honest person will tell you to wait untill you get married. Safeguard your womanhood for your husband, it is better this way. Don't attempt.
2006-10-10 22:22:03 · answer #6 · answered by zily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes , he'll definitely know this . if u really want happy & peace full married life pls dont do this . I know ur heart dont allow u to do this .
2006-10-10 22:40:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have sex, only if you want to though. & yes your furture husband will be able to tell but if he loves you it wont matter. i say he wont be a virgin either, so what would be the problem.. everyone gets what they want.
2006-10-10 22:24:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur culture doesn't allows it and u r expected to be a virgin wen married, so watever decision u take u have to assume it.
2006-10-10 22:25:15 · answer #9 · answered by Saphire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should never do this it's totally wrong.It's matter of ur future.look one thing that true love can never play with anyone's body or prestige. So u should think about it.
2006-10-10 22:19:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bibically speaking, no you are not allowed to have sex before marriage.
2006-10-10 22:16:11 · answer #11 · answered by roxy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋