What should I do?
My friend is kind of close to me,
I have been dating this guy for a couple of month but we still haven't agreed to be in a relationship,
one day, after a few day I haven't dated this guy,
I saw my close friend holding hands with him and smiling at each other and blah,blah,blah.
Then on the other day she told me while we were walking that she and the boy I dated is now a couple,
I was so shocked I couldn't even breath I went home and cried all long.
Tell me what I should do with my "close" and a back-stabber friend?
2006-10-10 22:07:48 · 17 answers · asked by wayu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whoa looks like we're on the same bridge, but this is what i did: Is the guy really that worth it? I'd say your friend isnt really a friend at all, have you talked to her bout it? If I were you, I'd avoid her, and ignore her, and just stay outta touch with her
2006-10-10 22:29:48 · answer #1 · answered by Caity 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing. The man wasn't interested in you. She didn't stab you in the back because you said yourself that you were not dating the guy. If you are really close with your friend don't let a man come between you. He won't be around that long believe me but your friendship can last a life time if it's sincere. Let it go. You are going through a jealous phase more so than being hurt. Be a friend and accept his choice.
2006-10-10 22:16:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
given there's this unspoken rule about how frens shld never touch other frens' crushes.... ur fren obv cares more abt herself..
BUT..the guy and u were not in a committed r/s so u can't fully blame them two either..... You shld be madder at the fella instead.
ignore them. Anything else u do will make u feel miserable at the end. Start looking for happiness elsewhere.
2006-10-11 00:52:14 · answer #3 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not carry close out together with her anymore, she isn't your pal. issues won't replace now on the grounds which you already confronted her and he or she denied each and every thing. you extremely do not prefer hypocrite human beings around you. continuously think of that as quickly as some human beings say undesirable issues approximately others is using the fact there is something incorrect of their lives and it makes them sense extra perfect to criticize others than to look interior themselves to discover and connect something that maybe incorrect with them. Love your self somewhat extra and show some dignity you at the instant are not in charge for something that got here approximately between you too.
2016-11-27 21:00:11 · answer #4 · answered by turick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you really can't tell what happened with them but it seems that she was honest in telling you that the one you dated is already her bf. In my view, I think she already had a secret interest with the guy but was too reluctant to tell you at first because you might get angry. Don't jump into conclusions that she was a backstabber. But I also suggest that you should be a little cautious about this friend of yours especially on your secrets, dates, because you still can't tell if she's a real friend or not.
2006-10-10 22:16:56 · answer #5 · answered by Monzi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't let it upset you to the point where it ruins your days, let it go.
Don't seek revenge. Move on try not to think about it and totally separate yourself from them slowly, I know it's not easy but be strong and you will be able to do it, you don't need friends like that, that is not a friend.
You'll find ones more deserving of you than that.
2006-10-10 22:20:34 · answer #6 · answered by Nanci 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stab her in the chest where she can see it.
In my opinon you should quit being friends with her, nobody deserves a back-stabbing-guy-stealer as a friend.
Cheers.
2006-10-10 22:20:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
make a new friend and dont bother with that one again.
2006-10-10 22:11:31 · answer #8 · answered by Southie9 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what about u take a knife and stab her in the back.
2006-10-10 22:11:49 · answer #9 · answered by danny cool 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmmm... i would mind that friend of yours if i where you.... i really don't care about what that friend do to me... thats all... ^^
2006-10-10 22:12:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋