He says he can see hiself marrying me and having kids, but id like a kid now with him, ive recently began the pill but i dont want to stop the pill and behind his back get pregnant i want it to be a two way thing, please help i dont know what to do...
2006-10-10 22:06:33 · 6 answers · asked by tracey a 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask him
2006-10-10 22:08:06 · answer #1 · answered by sleepwalker69 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be honest and open to him about it, but yet at the same time, be sensitive. I am going through a relationship wherey honesty and communication is the essential of it all. Believe me, I lied about a couple of things and I am fortunate that after a big argument for months, we are finally back together. Having a baby is a big thing, it really does takes up a handful of your time. He might be able to see himself marrying you bu timing is always the essential. Talk to him. Easier said than done but I see it as the best way.
2006-10-11 05:46:52 · answer #2 · answered by agen7red 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What age are you? plz leave having a baby till you's both want it, i have a son me and my fella didn't plan it, i actually got preg on the pill, it changes your relationship altogether, we don't have much time left for each other its all baby baby baby... we are still together but a baby puts wile strain on a relationship and it is you the woman left with the child at end of day, your man will still head to pub or do what ever he wants wen ever but you wont. think abt it wait till you have done your living and preferably married although you dont have to b married,but wait till both parties want it so he can support you and a baby, best of luck what ever you decide x
2006-10-11 05:25:04 · answer #3 · answered by comeo!! 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm sensing that you fear what his reaction would be if you share this with him. Otherwise you would have done so and the matter is settled. The best thing you could do is talk to him about it -regardless of your fear of the outcome. If he says no, then he is probably not the best person that you want to have kids with.
Best of luck.
2006-10-11 05:13:27 · answer #4 · answered by yellowscissors 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How old are you?
Having a child is so very much more than a link to some guy.
It certainly won't keep him or make him love you more.
And please believe this, if you do trick him into getting you pregnant, while you kiss your baby hello, you can kiss him good-by.
And you had better make sure that you can take care of a child on your own.
2006-10-11 05:26:11 · answer #5 · answered by deepndswamps 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just do it!
2006-10-11 07:25:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋