I have a habbit of falling for the wrong type of guys.It goes well for a week or two then without warning it goes pear shaped.Im trying to figure out what it is that im doing wrong here?
2006-10-10 22:05:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there are nice guys around .but, all depends upon what you are looking for? Casual romance or serious relationship? be clear on what you want and communicate that well to your partner.
2006-10-10 22:23:14 · answer #1 · answered by deamer boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have dated a lot of women and my suggestion is to forget about dating and just go out and get guys to talk to you. If you talk more than 1/4 to 1/5 of the time you are doing it wrong. Get them to talk to you. Refuse to speak if they do not talk and then walk away if they still do not talk. You might only be dating guys who are quiet because you like talking too much to let a guy get a word in edgewise so the guys who do talk don't hang with you. After you have dated guys who talk too much you might end up finding a happy medium or else know more about what you really want in a guy. In any case it will change who you are talking to and hanging out with.
2016-03-18 07:46:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i nearly have the same problem as yours. but for me, its because im easyly get sympathy towards other people and at the end of the day i just wonder, did i love her because i love her or i just have a sympathy feelings towards her? but one thing that i understand is, the first thing in relationship is "TRUST". people always say 'i will never trust u...' to the person that really cares for them, and 'i really trust u to a total liars' and why? because they dont know how to define trust. there are only 3 things that will determine if that person can be trusted:
1. people that give u knowledge
2. people that provide u protection and shelter
3. people that give u food
if we look at the 3 criteria, we can say that it is fulfilled by our parents. and its the same thing in searching for love, find people that give u knowledge, provide protection and give u foods. Dont fall for a 'sweet words' person. my father always say.... observe people from what they do rather then what they say.... hope this will help u.
2006-10-10 22:37:09 · answer #3 · answered by zal_mie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello.u are not doing anything wrong.me and my mum also have the same problem.but eventually i met some1 who is perfect for me i hope he stays that way.i met him through window cleaning a bit like romeo and juilet.i ve bin out with people who are violent got mental problems and the list goes on.Mr right will surprise you when u are least looking for it. just hang on in there.but dont look for love as love will look for u!i hope soon he finds u mr right.let me know what happens.you got my email add if u want.good luck!
2006-10-10 22:12:20 · answer #4 · answered by lucyhot21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself!!
someone you like is far different from someone you love
if they don't stick on u they are not actually for u!!
and if you feel like u've already found someone, try to work with the relationship! :) g'dluck!!
2006-10-10 22:12:24 · answer #5 · answered by chaldea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got to look specifically for the ones you want and not fall for the scrummmy but naughty ones
2006-10-10 22:06:59 · answer #6 · answered by sleepwalker69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hay we are out here and may be God and luck will come together and no more wrong types. it my not all be u some guys can just be having it tough like u
2006-10-10 22:13:07 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hit and try till u get the target.
2006-10-10 22:08:18 · answer #8 · answered by Excellent E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋