I know this guy for almost one year now and I had sex with him after the first week of us dating and going out togather and since then I can't stop having sex with him, I hate staying away from him, if I'm with him I feel like I don't know strange feelings come up on me, I tried to leave him but I end up calling him. Is that mean I'm in love with him
2006-10-10 21:46:31 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yah u r in love. Sex is not just a physical interaction but also creats love between two.
2006-10-10 22:02:41 · answer #1 · answered by neplizheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might have some personal issues. You might have found some sort of comfort zone with this guy that you're having sex with, and at first, it might have helped, but now, I think you might be beginning to realize that your not in love, and it scares you. Are you self conscious about something? Are you shy with the opposite sex? Was he your first? And if so, is that a reason that you might be clinging on to him? Are you the kind of person, that is scared of what people will say if you leave him?
You need to take the sex out of the equation, and look at the bigger picture. If you ask me, No, I don't believe that your in love. You love the sex, trust me, I've been there. Like some of the people have said, don't confuse having sex, with making love and loving your partner. Your headline says it to, "Love having sex", had you felt something deep in your heart, it probably would have been something different like, "Making Love"
P.S Speaking as a male, that's one lucky guy. Been in a relationship like that, where it was all about the sex, and enjoyed every bit of sex we had. I've got to find a girl like you again.
Wish you the best of luck.
2006-10-11 05:15:21 · answer #2 · answered by PsyChoPath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well girl for starters first and foremost you of all people should no the answer to that question. Whats the first thing that popps into your head.........huh.... I dont wanna sound harsh or anything like that but to be tapping that *** for so long now thats gotta be sayin something. But personally yeah I think your in love girlfriend, just try and cherish what you have with this guy, and add abit of this and abit of that and see where it takes you two. All the best.
2006-10-11 05:07:08 · answer #3 · answered by lost_angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself are you gay. If your problem is only loving in having sex with the same gender then you'd better straight yourself up.
How about do some testing, try your love life with opposite sex and see how you feel. To see whether you still have a strange feelings if you do have the same feelings. Then I strongly recommend you to stick with the opposite sex.
2006-10-11 04:56:44 · answer #4 · answered by Rod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love someone you will know, at the moment you do not know the difference between love and lust. Try to stay away from him for a while and see what your feelings tell you, also check what his feelings are for you. It is possible you love him or it is possible the two of you have some type of connection., sprititually speaking, some people say this is possible.
2006-10-11 05:03:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes sex is about love and sometimes sex is about sex. You can't find out the answer by asking 5 to 24 strangers on the internet.
2006-10-11 04:48:59 · answer #6 · answered by sueflower 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sex is a physical primal act. making love is an emotional thing. once you understand this then you will understand your feelings for him. if all you want is sex fine, that is what you will get. nothing else. it seems to me that you want more than that and somebody is out there that will be a perfect match for you. do not settle, take your time and have pride for yourself and your body. if you think he is the one hold out (no booty calls!) on sex and see if that is the only thing he is after. i bet you will see he is in it for that and i doubt he has more than just you on his plate so be careful!
2006-10-11 04:55:46 · answer #7 · answered by maclarke12 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it the love is a spectrum say from 1-10 and we can love someone on any one of the scale!
cos at the end of the day were all animals!
but he may not feel the same way
and it could spell disaster for you so tread carefully my little cherub!
cheers
2006-10-11 04:56:22 · answer #8 · answered by nyleridedog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't jugde being in love with having sex. love is not all about having sex. you can only be sure if u a strong emotional feelings attached
kinetical
2006-10-11 05:07:01 · answer #9 · answered by kinetical 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it doesn't mean you are in love with him it means you just using him to have a good time ...anyhow after just a week dating and you are still together ...well i give you some credit...good luck... guys have sex for fun ....they don't fall in love. too easy not like girls ....
2006-10-11 04:53:46 · answer #10 · answered by amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋