Despite giving hints all the time before the date and during the date. What was wrong with the approach of the Guy , or is it something that even the girl is not sure off as to why she backed off
2006-10-10 21:33:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
either she is not fully aware of your long-term intentions (if she is thinking of a long-term relationship) or the mood is not right. it could be bad music, messy room, bad breath, not enough attention before-hand. she may be shy or nervous also. perhaps the best move is to ask her. honesty is always the best way to approach relationships
2006-10-10 21:39:11 · answer #1 · answered by gwendolynpearce 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Crossing the line between the world of fantasy and the actual "deed" is a big step for most girls. You do not tell us your age or your date's, but the younger and more inexperience you are, the bigger the deal this will be. We all have fears and insecurities, and it is actually very wise to make sure that we are feeling very comfortable and very relaxed before sleeping with someone, a situation of great intimacy, in every respect.
Although your partner may want to do it at a certain level, she is not ready when it comes to the final step. I congratulate you on understanding and permitting it no matter how terribly frustrating it may be for you after all the teasing and the hopes she may have raised! This understanding approach is the right one though and I am sure she really appreciates it
An honest talk about how you feel is the right next step. Let's hope she reciprocates.
2006-10-10 21:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by tokialai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say maybe it is the way the whole thing is presented to her. If the guy is presenting as wanting sex then that is not a turn on but if the guy desires her and only her and uses the right language, makes her feel truly wanted and special then that is a turn on. For many women basic sex is not what it is about so romance her, woo her, make her feel like she is the most desirable woman in the world and you just can't contain yourself. How could she refuse.....if she is attracted to you........
2006-10-10 23:12:29 · answer #3 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's her first time, she is going to be real nervous not knowing what is expected of her. If it's her first time with you, there will be a sexual tension that is hard to handle. The question is do I really want to do this always comes up as unanswered. Another question that comes up is do I like him enough to do this? All these issues are possibilities and real down to earth communication (not hints) need to be explored by the two of you.
2006-10-10 21:43:02 · answer #4 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I've heard is 'Sometimes the girl isn't ready' from every girl who answers...... now although that might be true, and I most certainly wouldn't want to force a girl...... MAYBE just MAYBE she's a damn Prick Tease and should go flick her own bean for entertainment! Ever thought of it that way?
Not all girls are rightous bud!
2006-10-10 21:51:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is with the chick as she does not want to have sex just yet. And she does not know how to tell you that. Because she is afraid that you might get up and leave her and so she says nothing. I suggest that you talk to her about it openly and honestly and tell her that she is not pressured into making a decision that she is not comfortable with.
2006-10-10 21:38:01 · answer #6 · answered by Rock Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's either secretly on her cycle & doesn't want 2 tell U-----
either be-cuz she wants 2 B good or she doesn't feel comfor-
table w/U yet!!!
Why don't U back off & let her B the aggressor, U tried it, put
the ball in her court!
Smooches, Milkshake
2006-10-10 21:43:04 · answer #7 · answered by MILKSHAKE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time she may like you and fancy you it does not mean she is ready for sex. It is a big step for a lot of girls never mind if they are a virgin or not. Patience and understanding are needed, not judgements or pressure.
2006-10-10 21:38:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the girl might not be ready, dont rush her its an important thing to a women and a man.!
2006-10-10 21:43:39 · answer #9 · answered by Angelkiss85 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be any reason!!!!!!!!! be more specific.....
She could be a Virgin...
She may not want to have sex with you...
She may not be attracted to you in that way...
She may be on... (monthly)
Does she even know you like her in that way...
Hints.... errrrrrrrr black and white or so descrete you need a radar to pick them up....
Are you even dating this lass
Communicate properly ... Women prefer it when men are straight up... and honest...
2006-10-11 02:34:52 · answer #10 · answered by Cat ( " , ) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋