Why do I always date guy I know are not right for me?

Question

I always do it! But it's just like damn I get bored with the nice stable one's......aren't there neguys out there that are NICE and NOT booooooring?

Answer 1

hey girl don't be to hard on yourself... it happens to all of us.... is cause good girls like bad boys.... that plain out and simple... we are always attracted to things that we know are a challenge, and can keep us on are toes.... don't worry Mr right will come along just give it time.... good luck .. chrys:-)

Answer 2

We as women date men or attract men that we know R not
right 4 us 4 2 different reasons:
1)- U attract those unwanted personallity trates because
those R things that U posses
2)- U haven't grown up yet....I'm not saying that 2 B rude at
all, in fact, it's just wisdom U hopefully get as U mature. U get
tired of going 4 the 1's that don't really want U & start gooing 4
the 1's whom make U feel special.

The looks tend not 2 matter as much as the way he treats
U & makes U a part of HIS WORLD instead of U always trying
2 make him part of U'RE WORLD. U can C it deep down if U
look hard enouph at U're-self. There R a TON of upstanding men
who R not booooring!! Get an educated man, a hard worker, a
family oriented man, a man well traveled. Maybe someone in the
service??

Good Luck Honey, & never settle, look deep.

Smooches, Milkshake

Answer 3

You probably suffer from low self esteem. Females who have a poor concept of themsleves tend to turn to men who will make them feel as good as they feel about themselves. So if you are caught in an abusive or boring relatiochip that falls out of your league, realize this

1) You cannot change what you dont acknowledge.

However your statement is loud and clear, you are well aware that you are with a guy that is well outcasted from your expectations, so my suggestion is that you keep looking.

Go elsewhere, if the gold isn't hidden in your back yard perhaps it is somewhere else, but dont stick to the fake jewls, they oxidize faster and well......Im sure that thats not what you want.

Best Wishes!

Answer 4

Why? Because they are easy, unevolved, and have little depth. You deserve and want better. If the men you date treat you like crap and you keep on dating them, imagine how stupid it would be if you married one! There are thousands of nice guys who would love to show you a good time, pay attention to you, be spontaneous, and downright charming. They also have a strength about them and are capable of communicating beyond the basic grunts of the men who you are currently dating.

Answer 5

My sister was the same way as you. She always went for the guys her treated her like crap. The worse they were, the more obsessed with them she became. The nice guys who wanted to date her never had a chance. I never understood it and don't to this day.

Answer 6

women are some how drawn to the bad boy types. first the looks and the way they talk. then you dont find out till yr caught up with them. read tips on dating and more to help you better on this site

Answer 7

Your just looking for the wrong thing, that's all. You don't want a good man, you want a good time! What's the name of that song?......"girl's just wanna have fun?" Sounds like you. That may be normal, but won't get you a good man. Adjust your karma.

Answer 8

there are nice guys around .but, all depends upon what you are looking for? Casual romance or serious relationship? be clear on what you want and communicate that well to your partner...

Answer 9

I do the same thing....
I am learing not to.
I got a good book called. Are You the One for ME.
It has helped me a great deal.

Answer 10

You're basically trying to find someone who will respect you and is rich. So you better have some banging good looks ready for that =)