I want to be better in bed, i'm not terrible at the moment, but I definetely want to make the experience a better one for my partner. At the moment, I generally climax a little faster than my girlfriend, but I usually manage to get her to achieve an orgasm. This is something I'm very determined to do, because I want desperately to make her achieve multiple orgasms. I've read the kama sutra, and it's helped, and i've done some tantric excercises, any other advice? I have this wierd drive i guess, cuz I really love this girl, and If I want her to be really happy with my performance. Plz help me out.
2006-10-10 21:10:03 · 14 answers · asked by arkainisofphoenix 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you talk dirty in bed? Does she scream your name? As long as she's getting her orgasm first than you probably have nothing to worry about. Come up with many positions. And always let her do something that she wants to do in positions. If she kisses you before and after sex then she probably is satisfied and it does not hurt to ask.
2006-10-10 21:21:06 · answer #1 · answered by Still_21_nheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May your kind increase!!! Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay!! And take your time doing it! Women 'turn on' harder than men, so it takes them longer to 'get going'. Speaking from experience, and talking to other friends, a man can NEVER pay too much attention to a woman's neck/throat. Learn her erogenous zones, and use them! ASK her what she likes...make a game of it...see how long before you drive her totally insane doing something she enjoys. Bet it won't be long before she's going 'over the edge' before you, or with you. Good luck! (And tell her she's one lucky lady!)
2006-10-10 21:16:12 · answer #2 · answered by hrprrbn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every time you do it with her don't put your mind on it so much by doing this you will last longer than her.
Always put your mind on some thing else while making love. And also don't rush her take it slowly and you will see she will beg you for more.
Finally be yourself don't be disturb relax, and don't use one sexually position more often change it help.
Thanks
2006-10-10 21:19:21 · answer #3 · answered by daniel65ng 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Foreplay , foreplay, and more foreplay. Pay attention to how she responds to you and what you do. Do what gets the most response. And when in doubt, just ask her what she wants.
2006-10-10 21:17:45 · answer #4 · answered by Obsidian butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is one lucky girl! actually, you are doing well with your performance. you only need to add some verbal kinkiness while you are in "action". have you tried verbal flirting while doing the foreplay? use your imagination & be creative!
2006-10-10 21:37:55 · answer #5 · answered by lette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you are doing it... what if you stop right before you think youre going to go... calm down a sec.. go again... and longer... isnt this stamina? you will last longer once you have more sex. not thatyou should have a ton a sex.. ha be smart about it:)
2006-10-10 21:13:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't need be good in bed if this girl loves you. my boyfriend is real good in bed and he means alot to me because he took my virginity. you can find other ways of plesing her it dont just need to be in bed
2006-10-10 21:17:49 · answer #7 · answered by tracey a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get any video or DVD that is available in the "Adult" section of your local video store.
2006-10-10 21:16:06 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Main Event 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you re on the right path ...thinking about her satisfaction first.
keep up the good work.
when you re free let me know hi hi hi
2006-10-10 21:19:14 · answer #9 · answered by goodfebruary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
juz do what's best!! try and try, u'll learn from experiences:)
make it a night habit
2006-10-10 21:15:45 · answer #10 · answered by chaldea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋