I am married to another. C comes into my life ten years after and claims me back. She is very pretty, but i find the situation unfair for my woman. What should i do as she keeps on calling night and day? I was madly in love with her, but she moved away for a long time while she never tried to find me or call me or anything. Now she acts like i am the only man in this planet and i am rightfully hers!
Help!
2006-10-10 21:02:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
as what u've said u used to love her before...your already married... and i dont think u still need to talk to her or what coz that was past...somebody owns you now..:D.. and shame on her for not noticing u before...
better sing her this
"What goes around comes around
What goes up must come down
Now who's cryin', desirin' to come back to me"
2006-10-10 21:16:04 · answer #1 · answered by ettienne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This old gf is just a flash in the pan. She will leave again as quickly as shse reappeared.
You have a commitment to your wife.
Stop answering the phone calls. You can't mean much to her if she moved away for so long and never contacted you.
Also lets say by a long shot. you end up with her , and you go out of town for a week on business.....if she cheats WITH you (as in calling you when she knows you are married) She will CHEAT ON YOU.
Do you really trust a woman who flirts with another womans husband??????????? Well do you?? How low is your ego that you need an x gf to build you up???
Get a grip back on your reality. Love and adore the woman that you committed your life to.
The pretty lady will find another mark. Just say NO
2006-10-10 21:15:54 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to butt off. She has no right to come back in ur life as if 10 yrs hasn't elapse. She got prob in her love life and right now she needs someone and using you and think u r available. It's up to you not to give her much importance. She's the past and it's in ur interest to put that in ur head also.
It happens that some people meet yrs later but they understand that time hasn't stands still and things have change, life has change, person has change. They just don't exert rights as this.
Keep away. This is trouble.
2006-10-10 21:13:47 · answer #3 · answered by Saphire 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's HISTORY let go and tell her you're happily married.
It'd be in-morale if you dump your wife and left for her...anyway she left you once so she'll probably do it again and if you made the wrong choice you'll lose both!
Although there will be tons of advice for you but i think back in your mind you have already decided what you're gonna do...
2006-10-10 21:11:26 · answer #4 · answered by tommy_c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first .. are u married ...and happy with that?? i think that that other girl just needs to give up .. because i dont want her to break up what u have .... u sould explain the situation to ur wife .. soo she knows what is going on .. i hope that everything works out ok for u!
2006-10-10 21:06:32 · answer #5 · answered by InSaNe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell C you are happily married and it is too late to pick up where she left off.
2006-10-10 21:08:49 · answer #6 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is very unfair for your wife..accept the fact that you have your own life now with your wife..
2006-10-10 21:11:49 · answer #7 · answered by Hime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said it you were madly in love,but not any more,right?set a date with her and take you re wife with you.she might understand that you re no longer the man she met YOU RE MARRIED!FOR CHRIST SAKE!!!!!let us know what happened
2006-10-10 21:10:59 · answer #8 · answered by goodfebruary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with your wife this girl seems to be nothing but a home wrecker if she has waited til you are married.
2006-10-10 21:11:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somebody's gotta learn to hold on or let go...no middle ground.
2006-10-10 21:05:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋