Is it bad if my boyfriend and i don't get in fights.?

Question

My friends say cause he's older and mature. what do you think.

Answer 1

Nope...

Answer 2

No it's not bad. Me and my wife don't fight either. But sometimes I do have a few harsh words for her. That isn't a bad thing either.
The mistake that many couples make is not expressing their feelings. If they get angered/upset by something, they bottle it up inside. Sooner or later those trivial things that you've been suppressing will erupt forth like Old Faithful. Some people hold it in for years. When you do blow, you'll be bringing up everything from the past that's been bugging you and will say things (sometimes hateful) that you never knew existed. This can cause a lot of pain for both sides. Remember, once you say something - you can't take it back.
This is why I voice myself when something upsets me, no matter how small. Once I've had my say, it's done & over. With all grivencies aired, there's nothing to bring up later. Thus no conflict.

Answer 3

You don't say how old you and your boyfriend are, or how long you've been together. If you aren't fighting, that's great. Just remember though, two people will never agree on everything all of the time. If they do...one of them is lying. So if..and when that first disagreement comes along, don't panic. It's just a growing process in the relationship. And good luck, I hope you continue to 'not fight' with your boyfriend for a long, long time!

Answer 4

I thinks it's because you are blessed to find someone with patience and self control. Fighting is not good for any relationship. Everyone should have a peaceful life. It is not the right thing to argue and stay upset. This does nothing but cause nerve problems and low self esteem. A bad relationship is not healthy. Apparently you both have much in common. This is something to be thankful for.

Answer 5

I know lots of couples who don't get into fights. They are mature or they are just good at communication. Some people grow up in homes where there is constant fighting. They either repeat the behavior when they grow up or make a cjhoice to not get in to that behavior.

He sounds like a winner - so do you!

Answer 6

Just means that u 2 click really well, and both r grown up enough not to bicker about the dumb crap that most people do. really neither one of u must not have 2 stressful jobs or lives. that what usually causes couples to be edgey and nit-picky about things. come home, just had too much crap at work and couldn't yell at anyone there so u do when u get the chance. My exwife still calls me and yells and bitches about things, then when she's done she'll let me know she was just venting her anger out. we did that alot, but we knew. we could tell the other one needed to vent some anger out or we'd tell each other before we did it. Just don't keep things bottled up inside from the day, they get worse if u do. enjoy ur compatible relationship and tell ur friends to stop being jealous, maybe they argue so they can have good sex--make-up sex might be the only the sex in their relationships r really good. who cares.

Answer 7

There is nothing bad about no fight but only strange to be true. It is kind of suspicious and weird. No one is perfect unless your b/f has something hidden in his mind.
Do watch out to what exactly he is after. Why he never shows his displeased or disagreement. If there is no hidden agenda in him then I say you will find your life with him very boring.
Fighting on something that you see differently not all the times are bad but instead making your life more worth living for.

Answer 8

Not even one, or a little disagreement. It is not bad but it is strange. Are you guys being 100% real around each other? I think one minor arguement or disagreement is necessary to see how you both act, this way you are not surprised when it is too late - like when your married. You would get to learn more about each other. By the way, age has nothing to do with it.

He can also be one that does not want to argue, so he just accepts and stays quiet - which is also bad.

Answer 9

Fights aren't a healthy thing to go through in a relationship. Not unless it's a playful role you two play to juice up for later lovemaking, you know, makeup sex.

Both of you probably are disciplined in a way where you choose to talk things out peacefully, like mature adults.

Answer 10

I always thought it was a good thing you know? But you know that one day you will eventually get into a small fight over something and you never know how it'll turn out. I'm the type of person who has been trying to build on getting rid of anger just trying to keep a smile at all times. Who knows maybe he's the same.

Answer 11

Well i guess you should stop asking yourself why and instead just be happy!however i do agree a small fight like once every month should be good As long as you guys get over it and hug each other and hmmmm end up say sorry in bed hehehe!i guess thats the good end of a couple fight!Anyway i guess its all fine that you dont fight with your bf!