I´been seeing this guy for a month and everything was going well then he just stopped calling me, well it has been a few days now and he never stopped calling for this long. I thought we were hitting it of slowly and well so I don´t get it. Our last call went really well he had started to open up telling me about his personal stuff, so what should I do? Do I give him time or should I just move on?
2006-10-10 19:09:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you troubled girl....give him time he is obviously hitting he's head asking himself what he was thinking opening up, ok im just messing.
give him time you know he'l come around probably waiying for you to call him or the phone bills are up and high.
stay tough...
2006-10-10 19:14:53 · answer #1 · answered by ganja 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
CALL HIM!!!!! Why are yoiu sitting around waiting for him to call you. He might be wondering if you are still feeling him after talking about some of those personal things. He may be a little embarrassed. He may have even scared himself when he got off the phone with you and realized he had just opened up, so he just took a step back...and now it's your move!!!!!!!! Let him know its still cool, by calling him.
IF YOU DONT CALL HIM, YOU DONT WANT HIM.
Now, if he disses you when you call him, then you'll have the closure you need, and you can move on, I mean its only been a month. Dont sit around waiting for the axe to drop, just handle your business like a woman should.
2006-10-11 02:20:14 · answer #2 · answered by RAW29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some time. If it has just been a few days, then he is probably busy and has some personal issues to take care of. I'm pretty sure he still likes you because he is getting more personal with you. But, also keep in mind that if he is the type of person who is a "player" - you can find out by asking his friends or your friends who know him - then he might be seeing multiple women. But, I doubt it.
2006-10-11 02:20:53 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Main Event 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh good grief, I never thought this many girls actually sit around wondering why he doesn't call.
If you have his number, call him.
There may actually be some reason he hasn't called in the last few days, other than that he just decided to drop you.
And a few days without calling is not exactly a lifetime of neglect.
2006-10-11 02:12:52 · answer #4 · answered by CrazyChick 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what's up. In a non-mean way...demand an explanation to see where the situation is going...tell him exactly what youre telling us...that you don't wanna wait that long, so its either...be with me or not. Simple as that. Don't make things hard on yourself.
Hopefully everything turns out okay. Good Luck. :) PEace.
2006-10-11 02:15:34 · answer #5 · answered by Jenny 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to decide your priorities in your life. You've to ascertain his value/place in your life. If you don't feel comfortable without him, go ahead and take the initiative in the relationship. Though if the other person is hesitant, don't go too far, and maintain your gravity. If he cares for you ...he'll catch up.
2006-10-11 02:15:17 · answer #6 · answered by sameer s 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why don't you give him a call,and tell him that you concern and want to see if he is OK, than you hear his responds and than you will know if you should move on
2006-10-11 02:16:21 · answer #7 · answered by kitty 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
may be start to move on give it just a little time good luck to you
2006-10-11 02:12:12 · answer #8 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why don't you call him? perhaps he is waiting to see if you care enough about him to make the next contact.
2006-10-11 02:13:24 · answer #9 · answered by smomus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You took too long to let him sleep with you. He found someone else who would.
2006-10-11 02:12:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋