So far I've dated about 7 or 8 women this year and all relationships have ended within a month. I dont know what the problem could be. Everything seems to be working out great then they either break it off or just stop talking all together. Any ideas?
2006-10-10 19:01:23 · 19 answers · asked by MexMad 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Where are you meeting these women? How is your personality? Do you pamper the women? Are you Ugly? Do you shower? There's a lot more that we would need to know about you to be able to help you out. I'd susgest just keep dating until you can find the woman thats perfect for you.
2006-10-10 19:03:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're obviously choosing the wrong women. It does seem that you are desperate if you have already dated 7 or 8 women so far this year. You need to chill out a little and not go looking for a woman, just let things happen.
2006-10-10 19:09:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should re-evaluate yourself. I'm not saying you are a bad person or that you are the worse man on earth to date..but there has to be something. Lets look at you first. Ask yourself these questions, "what could it be about me?" "am i running these women off with things I say" "am i rushing things" "am i making myself appear interesting" "am i disrespecting these women" "are my standards to etched in stone and i should relax a little" Now after you re-evaluate yourself then evaluate the women you have been picking up. It could have been a bunch of mess that wasn't ready for you and what you have to offer. They could have been the type of women that do not know how to appreciate a man. Hope this helps
2006-10-10 19:05:13 · answer #3 · answered by Patty J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, i had this problem before for years. what you should do is ask them why. communication is the key. maybe your doing something and they are taking it the wrong way. or they're waiting for you to call back and since you don't they don't either. just tell the girl how you really feel that way you could have that relief that you did something about it if you really liked the girl. i'm pretty sure they'll be honest with you and at least you guys could stay friends. that way your next relationship will be better knowing what to do or not to do. hope this helps. .
2006-10-10 19:09:50 · answer #4 · answered by black_metal_mist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's hard to get an idea of what's wrong when you don't really tell us what's happening. Then again, if you've felt yourself 'getting serious' with someone more than half a dozen times already this year (each time in less than a month) there's a good chance you're coming on too strong. WAY too strong.
2006-10-10 19:04:36 · answer #5 · answered by Smarticus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be your personality, habits, or the amount of effort you're putting into the relationship. Step back and take a good look at yourself or what you have "going on"....
Are you too busy?
Do you like spending "quality time" with them or do you neglect them?
Are you engaging in good conversation or are you hardly talking?
Do you show that you care?
Are you selfish?
Are you too bossy?
Are you too clingy and/ or needy?
Are you trying to hard to make the woman like you? Love yourself first!
Are you meeting good women or hoodrats?
Are you too giving and spoiling them?
Do those women interest you enough to be romantic? Are you romantic enough?
Are you too much of a nice guy?
Are you too shy?
Do you treat the women as equals?
Do you rush the relationship?
Etc. Etc. Etc.
Ask yourself those questions and more. I would also advise you to take a look at how other people attract people to them and use it in your relationship. You have to work to keep the woman just as much as you had to work to get her. Learn as much as you can about how to be a good friend to women and how to listen and have fun.
But, take time out to make sure you're living right and doing the right things to please those women - AND YOURSELF. And make sure you're not over-doing your efforts as well. And... make sure you're choosing women with a "first class" mentality (not high maintenance) but respectable girls with goals and discipline.
Brother DzL (AsP)
"The Player's Lifestyle"
2006-10-10 19:17:59 · answer #6 · answered by mo2dajizzo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer. You actually mention it in your question. You've dated 7 or 8 women and all have left you. Might the problem be you?
2006-10-10 19:04:02 · answer #7 · answered by Arnold M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you being too clingy, or not pampering them enough? Maybe you need to take time to know yourself better before getting into a serious relationship. Let God lead the way!
2006-10-10 19:06:03 · answer #8 · answered by mylady_2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try changing up your routine every once in a while women like me get bored doing the same thing all the time.
2006-10-10 19:03:29 · answer #9 · answered by jusme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could give more details...you know to get a possible explanation out of this. I don't know you, I don't know them. It could be either one of you for all I know who seem to "destroy" the relationship..could be maybe you are afraid of commiting to someone and they sense that. Perhaps you are doing something that scares them away. Just somethin...to think about.
Good luck. :) Peace.
2006-10-10 19:08:29 · answer #10 · answered by Jenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋