What do guys really mean when they´re going out with someone but want to take things slowly? is it a sign that they´re not that into you or do they really mean it?
2006-10-10 18:58:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This could mean one of two things: he is really gay, but is still processing the idea or thought of being gay or he is here to stay. I am pushing the second idea more than the first. Don't worry. This guy is here to stay. When a man says he wants to take things slow, then he respects you as his woman and the relationship that the two of you have. He wants to savor every moment being with you and doesn't want to rush anything. This is a CLEAR sign that he is not only into you but he is wants to love you like no other will love you. The best thing for you to do is take advantage of this new found love and this respect and care this guy has for you. Take things slowly and cherish every moment. Just because time zooms by doesn't mean your relationship has to as well. Hope this helps!
2006-10-10 19:02:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To 'take things slowly' refers to how fast he wants to get serious. It usually refers to wanting to date but not necessarily get into a committed relationship, just yet. He wants to warm up to the idea. Getting into relationships is hard for some guys. They may have been hurt by moving too fast in past relationships. It usually means he likes you a lot, and doesn't want to move too quickly to ruin what might be a good thing.
2006-10-10 19:02:35 · answer #2 · answered by Arnold M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'Cause we're ordinary people. Maybe we should take it slow,' When guys take things slow, it means its just their way of handling a relationship. Based on experience, taking things slow may be a wrong move. You may get tired of it and find a new guy. Just bear with this slow lover. If you leave him for someone who provides fast love, he may have used up all his aces too soon and you'll get tired of him too. If you think the slow lover is really moving too slow, you got to tell him to up his tempo a notch if he's serious about you.
2006-10-10 19:14:12 · answer #3 · answered by Cool Guy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they might have been in another relationship which ended coz of taking things fast. They might want to know some one better before engaging into serious relationships. More to that they might be looking for a serious partner with intention of marriage. If a guy says the above and keeps contact and treating u as special, he might be in for a long relationship. Never the less if he says the same and keeps of he is calling it quits in a polite manner
2006-10-10 19:06:12 · answer #4 · answered by dmutheem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are not sure they want to commit to the relationship. They don't want to rush into it, which is usually a good thing. If a girl (or guy) is pressuring to get things fast - it's a sign that there's something unhealthy is going on.
2006-10-10 19:00:47 · answer #5 · answered by Infilia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all it depends on the bloke if he's a nice guy probably sorta dorky he probably realy means it but if his a real gangster sorta bloke hes probably trying to tell ya to back off his not into you but then again you shopuld never judge a book by its cover so you obviously dont know him to well cos other wise you wouldnt be asking so for your sake who gives a toss what he means by it why dont you just take things slow and get to know him betterbefore rushing into anything to full on
2006-10-10 19:10:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are trying to make themselves appear to be vwry well rounded and mature thinking menn , who just don't jump into bed with any gal. That way you girls will forget about us guys trying to get into your pants and you will let us men decide when that time has come, like right now!
2006-10-10 19:05:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes it means they are gonna take it slow. They don't want to be pushed into a relationship. I can fully relate.
2006-10-10 19:01:30 · answer #8 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love this! The only one I disagree with is the "Oh don't fuss, it's only a cut." In my experience, it actually means "I've got a tiny paper cut and I want to be pampered and looked after. So you can make dinner tonight while I recover." :-P
2016-03-18 07:43:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys dono't wanna make things loud,cause they think it might be bad for the girls future.
i mean if he woudln't continue with you,you may get hurt much more when everybody knows about your realationship.
so take it easy and give him time to love you.
if so,and he made sure that he loves you and wanna be withyou,he'll anounce it LOUD!
2006-10-10 19:21:22 · answer #10 · answered by Stephan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋