Guys would you be touchy-feely with a girl if you were not attracted to her?? Such as touching her arms and shoulders and sides a lot? Please no sexual remarks or crude comments, this is a serious question. Thank you! :)
Also, guys if you do this, what are you thinking when you do? Nothing crude please! Thanks! :)
2006-10-10 18:47:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some people are naturally touchy feeling. I know that I touch people's arms when I talk to them if I know them. I have found that when a guys touches me in the way you describe it usually means he is attracted to me or he wants something slightly more than friendship. That's just what I've gathered from past experience. If you don't like it just flinch slightly when he does it and he'll soon stop or just tell him that it makes you feel uncomfortable.
2006-10-10 18:50:22 · answer #1 · answered by Seahorse 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Touchy Man
2017-01-13 07:23:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I'm not touchy-feely, and I don't want some guy always having to have some sort of physical contact. If he all the sudden started acting tough-feely I'd probably ask him if his brain was suddenly flooded with hormones.
2016-03-18 07:43:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt be touchy-feely with a girl I wasnt attracted to. Its not on purpose, but natural, to be touchy-feely with someone im attracted to. And what am I thinking of??? Well, at first, im not thinking of sexual situations, but more enjoying being as close to you as possible, without you noticing Im being "touchy-feely" if that makes sense. Good luck!
2006-10-10 18:53:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think most men want to be touch fleey with their girlfriend or love but some are afraid .if it is not the love of your life as long as it is just an arm or shoulder once ever now and again it may be ok but if it happens at work every day this is then a problem .Here in my country Australia it is against the law for a man or woman to do this sort of thing at work and both the person doing it and the employer if he knows can be sued by law here and fined large sums of money.
2006-10-10 19:00:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish i can be touchy feely with the girls i attracted to BUT i don't because for me, it's about being modest and respectful. for me being respectful to the girls and for me to respect myself.
some guys would be touchy feely with every girl he knows (maybe he's taking advantages or just being himself), some guys would only be touchy feely with girl they are close with, and some guys wouldn't be touchy feely with any girls at all.
if i am being touchy feely with a girl, obviously i'm thinking of being cuddly with the girl (affectionately, maybe with or without any romantic acts). obviously, sexual fantasies would come in mind at some level but NOT all the time!
so, BEWARE with those whom are taking advantages on you! if you don't feel comfortable with those losers, just avoid seeing or being close with them! tell them straight in their face that you don't feel comfortable to be treated like that!
2006-10-10 19:08:18 · answer #6 · answered by immortal1983 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a straight guy is touchy he finds you appealing.Especially the back above your butt,if he places his hand there guiding you he's yours.
2006-10-10 19:02:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
i like the touchy feely lol....they probably do it because they're attracted to the girl or they're messing around....or they do it for no reason...or they like to touch girls.........
2006-10-10 18:51:11 · answer #8 · answered by LazyLOViNtEEn 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some guys thank God are affectionate. affection does not mean sexual attraction. it just means if they care about someone they touch them to show it . i love affectionate men. i am a married woman and have many affectionate male friends. my husband knows how they are and does not mind because he knows there is no sexual attraction only affection.
2006-10-10 18:50:33 · answer #9 · answered by jusme 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would tell them you need some personal space...Extend your arms out and twist at your waist with arm stretched out...Tell the guy this is the distances he needs to keep from you...Or punch him in the eye, he'll get the message....
2006-10-10 19:05:28 · answer #10 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋