I've read that if you relax it doesn't hurt as much, but how on earth can a girl relax when she knows what's gonna happen....on a scale of 1-10, 10 being the worst? like what should i expect my first time? my guy is *ahem* not that small. help!!
2006-10-10 18:43:43 · 17 answers · asked by Starry Eyes 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would advise you to hold on to your virginity because that is a gift that your supposed to give to your husband. You will regret it, trust me, I know. It depends on the size of the penis on how painful it will be your first time. If he is large like you say then it may be quite painful the first time but after that you should enjoy it.
2006-10-10 18:51:20 · answer #1 · answered by I'm learning. 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
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2006-10-11 01:47:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-11 01:45:17 · answer #3 · answered by papaofgirlmegan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some girls have unimaginable pain that leaves them sore for days, others have very little discomfort. it depends on if he knows how to treat you the first time too. the more turned on you are the easier it is, lots of lubrication is very important. Sorry if this sounds a little too personal. My husband is lebanese and so all the girls are virgins till they're married so guys over there actually talk to each other about how to treat a girl on her wedding night. My suggestion, have a couple of glasses of wine.
2006-10-11 01:58:57 · answer #4 · answered by justwanderingaround 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It only hurts the first time if you are in a hurry and aren't well lubed and it may help to do lots of foreplay so it relaxs you before you have intercourse
2006-10-11 02:17:08 · answer #5 · answered by John H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the guy, if he really cares 4 u, he'll do what he can to make it as painless as possible, maybe a 5-9, if not , look for a 10.
2006-10-11 01:55:06 · answer #6 · answered by pat s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the words of an old German Philosopher, "Kurz ist die Schmerz und ewig ist die Freude!" (Brief is the pain and eternal is the joy!)
2006-10-11 01:50:30 · answer #7 · answered by Curious1usa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may hurt just make sure you are well ready for,
Plenty of foreplay first and if you are not very wet use KY Jelly
2006-10-11 01:56:54 · answer #8 · answered by stud200_uk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. No. But in a few days in First Sex.
2006-10-11 01:46:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friends tell me it depends on the female, but personally I do not know. Because I'm a virgin too.
2006-10-11 02:02:00 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥Bree♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋