Hello, I am falling in love with my sister, and i am not a lesbian, but i really think shes sexy. what to do?

Question

she is 18 and im the bigger sister at 23 I think she has a beautiful body and a sexy personality. We have so much in common and I don't know if she loves me in a romantic way. how do i get her to fall for me? Any tips? I have always thought about having sex with her since i was 17 and she was 12. I know this is wrong but keep your nasty comments to your self. serious answers please

Answer 1

Seek professional help.......asap!

Answer 2

I appreciate your openness. You are staying in a country where sex is a common and routine thing. But imagine if you were staying in an Islamic country can you dare speak it so public.
Now coming to the question in view, it is quite natural that what ever you like you want to experience. It can be anything, but desire is common. Here you need a mental balance. You like your younger sister and appreciate she is sexy. But you rememeber she is a human, another girl. If you spot her with her boy friend, you will definately turn craky and go to the extent of murdering her and/or her boyfriend.
So, now it is time to control yourself. You can express your love, as a sister, and take care of her and make her life more happy. Note all the desires cannot be fulfilled. There are some which can never be fulfilled. Same is your situation.
Once again I repeat, have control on your self. Best way is to divert your mind on something, a hobby, education or boy friend.
get rid of inferiority complex from your mind. It is unsuited for you, who is not a lesbian, to fall in love with another girl.
Share your feelings with your friend, or boy friend if you have one, and live happily.

Remember that the subject in question is your own sister and you are not going to harm her directly or indirectly.

Answer 3

It is hard to believe this is a genuine post. You have poor insight and I believe it points to some sort of mental illness. Incest is never considered okay in our society because of the constructs thusly created within views of morality. I know it's hard to admit but you need to see a psychiatrist. If you put this off you will hurt your sister and yourself very much. If this is a bogus post, you really have a strange sense of finding enjoyment. Indeed, you might be better off without the shock factor thing. You sound as if fear has blanketed you and you need to unleash inappropriate comments to alleviate some sort of stress, very Freudian, I know. Either way, I'd put a little more thought into you actions here.

Answer 4

You should not try to get her to fall for you. Although your feelings can be natural, since she is younger,(and your sister) she could perceive your desire as harassment and end up really suffering emotionally if anything happened especially if she was forced or "seduced" in anyway. It really would be the same as an older brother "coming on" to a younger sister, you may not perceive it the same way, but it would cause her harm, she would not be able to talk to anyone about it and would probably feel ashamed of it. Don't do it please, talk to a youth help line about your feelings. Feel free to tell her you love her as a sister, and consider that maybe you do have "feelings" for the same sex, whether you want to label them lesbian or bi or curious and try to accept that about yourself or explore it for yourself. Maybe it just feels safer to" allow" yourself these feelings in regards to your sister at this time without making yourself feel bad about it, but also NOT imposing them on her, OK ?.You can try to talk to your sister about your feelings in general about girls or women if she seems to be open minded about it.

Answer 5

I'm not trying to be mean or anything but you need to seek professional help. It really isn't healthy for 2 good reasons. #1 you've had feelings for her since she was 12, and #2 she is your sister. It doesn't mean your sick or anything but there is definately something that needs to be discussed with a professional.

Answer 6

You might simply be bicurious, but your sister isnt the one you should be experimenting with.
As for falling in love with you, I am sure she already is. As a SISTER.
Fight your urges and look for satisfaction elsewhere. It is no different for any incestuous relationship (dad+daughter, mom+son, etc)
Just because we love something in that way, does NOT make it okay to act on it.
Control yourself, and find someone else who can fulfill your needs (outside the family)
good luck

Answer 7

You should just stop posting stupid questions just to get attention. In another topic u posted u wanted to sleep with ur own son and u said u were 30 years old and now you're 23?
Stop wasting people's time by posting this stuff. Because clearly you're doing it for attention.

Answer 8

OMFG if u want people 2 keep coments to them self stop sayin **** like this god even if u are jokin u seariously have a problem uv said it about ur SON ur DAD ur BROTHER and ur sister thats so rong any1 agree with me ???? ewwww

Answer 9

Ummmm I think this is called incest if you two are biological sisters..... May be you just curious about being with girls and since your sister is around you all the time, you might had a fantasy with her... Try to go out with other girls. But don't go for your own sister!

Answer 10

oh god this is a serious problm dr u need counselling i think.u say urnt lesbian bt hw come u hav such a strong desire to hav sex with her since 17?this is vry difficult to make a girl love u dr unless she feels the same like u?i think if evr she's aware of ur feelings for her ur gone lose a sister.had i been in her shoes id leave the house and forget if evr u were related to me.beware of wat ur doing?and stop focussing on girls the world is full of man go and find urself some1.I wouldnt advice u to tell her wat u feel nor go ahead with sex.THink well and may god help u.

Answer 11

well for one thing...if you like your sister then yes you are a lesbian. And maybe u should think of the fact that she probably isnt thinking of you in the same way at all...you should prolly not tell her either cuz u might scare away forever.