Me and my boyfriend just broke up but I cant 4get bout him he told me we should try it again some other time! But then this other guy wants to go out w/me what should I do if I am always thinking bout my x boyfriend?
2006-10-10 18:20:44 · 20 answers · asked by Marlene 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take a break until you start feeling better. Going out with someone too soon is called the rebound. Not fair to you or the new guy. Start doing things that you truly enjoy & if he broke up with you then you are more than likely feeling rejection & possibly why you aren't dealing with the change so easily. Try & remind yourself why you shouldn't be out there doing just fine like your ex.
2006-10-10 18:27:58 · answer #1 · answered by Geez Louise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well time has alot to do with anything. If you JUST broke up of course you won't be able to stop thinking about him and honestly if you are just getting out of a relationship it's not really a good idea to try and jump into another one. You should sit back and and think about why your ex said try it again some other time...is he going through a rough time right now? Or is there something else that's causing him to want to be single right now? If it's the first one then definitely talk to him and make sure he knows that you are there for him then maybe he'll see that all he needs is someone to lean on right now. But if its the second then maybe you will be better off looking for someone else anyways. Whatever your decision be remember that you can never have too many friends and that other guy that wants to take you out...well just because you aren't ready to move on to another relationship and love someone else doesn't mean that you can't hang out with him and just enjoy his company....truly beautiful love comes in times least expected.
2006-10-10 18:32:14 · answer #2 · answered by xxsanchabonitaxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends. Think about your exboyfriend. What were the reasons you broke up in the first place? Do you think it's going to happen again if you actually try the relationship? Because let me tell u, if he cheated on u or something, he's going to do it again.
Of course you can't forget your ex. You just broke up after all.
If your ex is a good for nothing guy then i say date this other guy, tell him you just got out of this relationship recently and that you just want to try the dating thing. But wait did he say wanting to try the dating thing some other time or right now? Cuz if he said some other time, then forget him. You don't have to be waiting on him to ask you out.
I say go out with the other dude. Who knows, he might help you forget your ex.
2006-10-10 18:27:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm.. you have to ask yourself do you really like this new guy that wants to go out with you. Also about your exboyfriend, you may be thinking about him alot because you are use to the fact you were once together and you got use to it. It happenes to most people because once you get use to doing certain things a sudden change is very hard to accept. about trying it again, you have to think about who ended the relationship and why didn't it work out. If it didn't work out the first time why would it work out the second?? my best advice to give you is you should try to go out with the new guy because it will give you a different feel in everything and you won't know whos better untill you try. It might even help you move on.
2006-10-10 18:27:45 · answer #4 · answered by jason w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try it again some other time? what does that mean. sounds like ur ex wants to see other girls and if it doesnt work out then he can fall back on u. try to be more open about seeing this new guy. if ur not ready to date then let this guy know and tell him that u are willing to go out just as friends and see how it goes. if u still cant get ur ex out of ur mind then talk to u ur ex and see what his plans are. if he is comfy seeing other girls and is still telling u to hold on or that u two can get together in the future then that's a sign that he is just playing with you. so stand strong and move on!
2006-10-10 18:23:51 · answer #5 · answered by mayami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can always say you would like to, however, your just got out of a relationship and not quit ready for another one as of yet.
You could always go out with him along with others as friends. This might help you take your mind off your ex-boyfriend.
Hugs))
There's still life out there, don't let it pass you by. You will know the right one when it comes along. good luck~
2006-10-10 18:27:25 · answer #6 · answered by Dawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should forget your ex-boyfriend. U are now his spare tyres - as after he try dating others girls unsuccesfully then he want u back. As for this new guy, u can go out with him but don't take it too serious initially as u had just broke off from yr ex. U might taje him as a spare tyre too. Just go out to have fun and relax.
2006-10-10 18:29:25 · answer #7 · answered by Renew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 04:32:15 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur ex told u u guys will try it again next time. well, that next time will never ever come. there is no definite time means there is no next time.
so help urself and meet new people and give them a chance. do ur self a favor. dont live life as if there is only one man. hell no... there are lots of men!
i know its easier said than done, but let me tell u what sister, if u dont fix urself up, ur ex would not even care!
2006-10-10 18:26:54 · answer #9 · answered by The Punisher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're "love sick." Some times though, the best way to get over someone is to have someone else to think about. Sooner you get back into the dating scene, the sooner your heart will mend. So as hard it is, get out there! At least it'll take your mind of things, for awhile anyway.
2006-10-10 18:25:27 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋