alot of girls like my boyfriend and hate me what do i do?

Question

alot of girls in my school hate me and i dont know what to do but if i dumped him the girls would still hate me hes17 and rich and hot

Answer 1

U and ur boyfriend convert to Islam...
All girls & even boys will then hate u both & u will live peacefully
Except that, the US government will start discrimination & racism for u both..
& try to involve u both in any terrorist attack & then torture u, beat the hell out of u, & then kill u & no body knows where u both went...
ok???
Right???

Answer 2

Well, this is a tough situation, especially if you want to stay together with him. I know this must be tough for you to try and deal with other's opinions, while still trying to determine whether you actually love him or not. I'm not discrediting the fact that you can love at this age, but if you've only been together for a couple of months, your still trying to figure out who you both are in this relationship.

I guess the advice I would normally say is to not listen to those girls, and forget what they say to you. Sometimes, we think more on a situation than what is really needed. However, it's tough to try to not take into account how other's feel.

Discuss with your boyfriend your feelings about your situation, and visit a trusted friend or adult. Tell them how you are feeling, and ask them for advice on to deal with the pressure. There is no shame in trying to work out your feelings with other people, and in fact, being objective and getting advice from an outside source can help you take stock of a situation better.

However, if others won't listen to your feelings, and your boyfriend seems nonchalant about it, try to take stock of the relationship. Is all of this agonizing over other's opinions worth more of your time than the relationship itself? How much are you willing to put up with for this guy? If it's only going to cause you sleepless nights, and make you more stressed out than what you can handle, tell your boyfriend you need some space. If he is not respectful enough to let you take some breathing room, than tell him you will reconsider your relationship.

As for the other girls, they can whine and complain all they want, but your the one in the driver's seat. If they try to make a move on your man, just politely reaffirm to them that he's your boyfriend and your not going anywhere for the time being. They can deal with their own feelings if they have a problem.

Try to keep things in perspective. Even if he is rich and hot, that doesn't automatically make him the most kindest, respectful human being on the planet. Enjoy the time you spend with him, but don't get upset if it doesn't last. Besides, there are many more hot, rich, 17 year old fish in the sea just for you to enjoy. Right?

Answer 3

Well first off let me start by saying this, people are always gonna find some way to judge u or hate u, dont listen to the crazy B**ches let them run theyre mouths, u know they do it because theyre envyous of the relationship u have with ur boyfriend, u both love each other enough to be together so dont let others hate for u destroy it, move past it and just be happy, a**holes will always be a part of our lives we just have to learn to deal with it and ignore it, simple as that, hope this helps out :)

Answer 4

Why would the other girls hate you? If it is because of something about your personality (such as the possibility of you being materialistic), then you'd have to change your way of behaving a bit (like show everyone that you care about your bf because of certain SPECIFIC and unique qualities that he may have). If it's because you're going out with this guy, tell them that you know that you and him are really compatible, that you're really able to complement him in a significant way, and that the other girls have to accept the fact that he's happy being with you. Regardless of whatever the reason may be, NEVER lose your cool and ALWAYS show respect to your bf AND those girls that hate you. In time, they will change and your bf will appreciate you even more.

Answer 5

So what if those girls like him and not you. It sounds like you already know why - so... forget those other girls for now. If you want to make friends with later, cool. But for now, try to keep your boyfriend happy and interested... and keep your eyes open for the player-haters and hoodrat hoochies that might try to invade your relationship.

You should also keep your boyfriend on his toes by continuing to look good and by having class and style. Be assertive and learn to enjoy the company of other people - mix and mingle; parlay.

Yeah, those girls are gonna try to hate and "compete" with you for him, but you must remember to be a Diva at all times! Be charming and friendly. But keep a close eye on those scrubs. Don't let them see you nervous, confused, uncertain, or worried about your future with him. That would give them a boost and they will work harder to make you upset or stressed out.

And don't admire your boyfriend for his money - it makes you seem like a gold-digger and a moocher (I don't believe you are). And it can make him and others be a little wary of your character and motives.

Brother DzL (AsP)
"The Player's Lifestyle"

Answer 6

DON'T STOOP TO THIER LEVEL

If they hate you just because they're jealous of you then you should forget them. Just because they like your boyfriend doesn't mean they should be nasty to you. You could ignore them, but what would be more fun is to be really really nice to them even though they're not being nice to you. It works better than just being nasty back because it will annoy them so much that they'll give up on being nasty to you. In the meantime you could try making friends with some of the other guys you know since they obviously won't be jealous of you!

Hope I was helpful to you.

Answer 7

That's the way it usually goes. Because u got him they hate u for being able to accomplish what they could not.so... they will always hate u until they find someone who has got it better than u in their minds. some girls are so immature. Good luck

Answer 8

Marry Him!
Lock Him away in a Tower!(For Your Eyes Only!!)
Get him to send-out for Cash for you!
You'll both Live Happily Ever After!

Answer 9

That's probably why they don't like you - because you have something they want, your boyfriend. Just ignore it, and don't stoop to their level by being angry or do mean things. You will make more friends that way once they see that you are and can be a nice person.

Answer 10

Why would you dump him because of other girls? thats not something you want to do..its pretty stupid..dont dump your boyfriend because they dont like you. you shouldnt be worrying about impressing them anyway. just focus on you and your boyfriend. those girls dont matter.