Christians: What should/can I do to get out of the spiritual rut that Im in?

Question

Im losing hope to live. I would never kill myself, but I feel that my life is going nowhere.

Answer 1

Life is difficult my brother, i too wish that i was in heaven and have asked to die so many heart breaking times. How ever understand beloved child of god, he has a blessing but the spirit of depression wishes to take what is yours. In war the enemy moves when his enemy moves. the table the lord has prepared for you is in the presence of Satan and his angels. your time you can not define but tomarrow is not promised to no one, death is indeed the blessing but that is for the lord our god to decide. Stay strong and stand at attention, for the lord is at work here and your enemy wishes to stop you, he wishes to kill you. Pray my brother, tell you father how you feel, he loves you and will listen, HE DIED FOR YOU. This world and all that is in it is for you, seek him and he will find you. Can't find the strength to stand, then he will carry you.

Answer 2

I am not Christian, but I hope my advice is still considered. First of all, I'm glad you are choosing to try to fix what's wrong and not turn to suicide. But, I wouldn't say you're in a "spiritual rut" if you are losing hope to live. Try something new, anything, anything that is exciting and you haven't done before but it sounds fun. Have one day to yourself, no one can bother you, you can just hang out with friends and have a blast. Hike deep into the forest by yourself and listen to the birds, feel God's earth around you and really be in the moment. Remember that everyone has a purpose. God wants you here, and he wants you to be happy. Go to a different church, a better one with friendly people and a pastor you like. I would also suggest reading (perhaps inspiring poetry), or do something you enjoy. Good luck!

Answer 3

That is usually a sign that God is trying to get your attention. You are "hitting bottom" I just now did that. I just found that I was driving myself crazy with the wrong thoughts, the wrong priorities.
I finally started to realise that I wasn't paying attention to God enough, and reading the Bible enough. I had somehow juggled my priorities and put material things in the way of my spiritual priorities. It's still difficult, but I'm feeling better now. You need to be around good Christians, I know that's hard, and that's one of my struggles. Do little things to help people, or even bigger things. If you feel you have a purpose you will not feel like you are going nowhere. God loves you, and has a purpose for your life. He's trying to point out to you how meaningless life is without Him in your life. I don't know much about your life so it's difficult to answer your question.

Answer 4

Service! Go out and serve others in worse situations, help out for a day at a soup kitchen. Donate time to a hospital, go read to an elderly person in a nursing home. There are alot of things you can do to see and realize that you have many things to be thankful for. I have found that anytime I serve others, I feel better and have a much better outlook on life. Besides the blessings that come to those who serve their fellow men are unimaginable.
There are lots of people out there who really don't have hope. Many out there fighting to live, but losing a battle to cancer. How dare you squander the life you've been given. It's not going anywhere because you have to make an effort to live. Now go do it! Get on your knees first and ask God what you can do today, and ask for his help and guidance.

Answer 5

I totally understand spiritual ruts. I was in one for a few months recently for reasons I really don't understand, but I know that God will never leave us. Check out the first link below for a little about things I've struggled with in the past.

Also, in case you need to talk to somebody, the second link is a list of toll-free crisis hotline numbers. I know that emotions can do really weird things to a person--I've been there. Please drop me a line at [e-mail] if I can help in any way. I'll be praying for you.

Answer 6

1. Sincere prayer, not a rosary. (God doesn't like chanting or repetitive prayer.) Talk to the Big Guy Upstairs about what's on your mind.

2. Talk to another Christian who is older than you; get some advice. You need some perspective.

3. Take some risks. You're in a comfort zone that is eating away at you. You may be ready to take some bigger steps.

4. Read more.

Realize this: you were brave enough to ask the question here, weren't you? That's the first step to solving a problem; realizing you have one.

Answer 7

Often when we start to feel this way we spend a lot of time dwelling on ourselves. ‘Where is my life going?’ ‘Is it worth it?’ ‘Am I ever going to have anything worthwhile?’
Often when we start having thoughts like this, it’s very easy for negative thoughts to creep in. ‘I’m not good enough.’ ‘I do everything wrong.’
If this sounds like you, if you’re having these negative thoughts, ask yourself this. Where are these negative thoughts coming from? God doesn’t put them in your head. He loves you and he wants the best for your life.
So obviously Satan is trying to pull you down.
Defeat him. Every time a negative thought comes in your mind, tell Satan to go away. Tell him you belong to Christ and he can’t have control of your mind.
Now the next thing to do is get your mind on outward things, instead of thinking inwardly toward yourself. See if there’s some new activity you could attend. Or volunteer your time somewhere. The most important thing is to get your mind off yourself and on to other things.
You will also want to pray about this. Ask God for guidance and direction. Remember that he wants the best for you and he is on your side through all this. It could be that he is tying to show you a new direction for your life, so pay attention.
All the best and my prayers are with you.

Answer 8

If you read the small, easily read book, "A Christmas Carol" by Charles Dickens, you will see that life has not really changed in a century. (Or even since Solomon and David, or Adam and Eve.)
What is wrong with all of us, has been wrong from the start. But there is a possibility to change it. If you want to. And there is a force in the world that will come to you and help you.

Answer 9

I wonder how old you are. Ever try fasting and praying. You'd be amazed. I wonder what you do in your life. Are you doing the right things, or are you wanting a quick fix. Some people make really stupid choices and then wonder why their life sucks. I read the scriptures and when I learn something new, it excites me and makes me feel good. When all else fails, do charity work. Doing something for someone else gets your mind off your problems and makes you feel better about yourself.

Answer 10

You are in your comfort zone and it has gotten boring! You need to spread your wings and fly! Do something kind and giving that you have never done before; like go down to a homeless shelter and help serve lunch or answer the phones. If you don't know your neighbors, go knock on doors and introduce yourself, offer to help them with house repairs, yard work or something like that, but the only way you can get out of the rut is to do something charitable that you have never done before.