This guy and I hooked up with this guy a while ago (no sex, everything but) After that night he kept contacting me which was fine, because we had both agreed that we didn't want retionships (I am coming out of a serious long term) and we could just have some fun, after some flirty emails & phone calls we slept together.
However, afterwards he wanted to cuddle and talk and the next morning he said he wanted to spend the day with me! Im feeling confused about what he wants - He knows he doesnt have to play me to have sex, so whats the deal? Does he want a relationship now?
2006-10-10 17:33:50 · 24 answers · asked by biscuit 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, he wants a relationship.
Just like you do.
That's what sex is about.
Why do people think that it's possible to have sex without any kind of relationship? Humans are social creatures. We live in relationship. Sex is designed to cement a relationship between two people so they can create and support a family.
So, next time you're off your high and thinking about hooking up again, ask yourself if you want sex or if you just want all the people you've had sex with to be around you again.
I feel like Dr. Laura... but seriously, isn't this common sense?
2006-10-10 17:54:42 · answer #1 · answered by georgemime 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To find someone who you really care and would fall in love with is not easy. If you do find someone who loves your company and if you feel the same way, then why not accept his offer of "cuddling/talk and spend the day with you " and go from there. If relationship develop along the way, that will be great. Enjoy the momment, and don't think too much... Cause if it keep going this way, you 2 will be in a relationship without you need to do anything about it
2006-10-11 07:19:36 · answer #2 · answered by tdbhc33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's why pre-marital sex is frowned upon in some cultures... Sex creates a bond between two people that is irreversible. You spend the most intimate time feeling what heaven is like, and suddenly you are joined at the hips. He likes you. He wants to treat you like a lady and not like a tramp. Just enjoy the ride and appreciate that he wants to make you feel like a woman.
2006-10-11 00:38:31 · answer #3 · answered by jennilaine777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
poor communication he is thinking you would not like him if he really actually used you just for sex because 99% of you women keep telling us guys that so he is confused. Talk again if you are serious about nothing serious he is just not sure or maybe he does want a relationship so you two need to clarify your intentions, communicate.
2006-10-11 00:39:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is totally infatualted with you. At this point, it's abgout he is remarkably sexually stimulated about you and he is in fantasy.
See if tou like him as a person and if he can give you sp[ace and freedom to persue your own life. If he cannoit, he will be aln albatross. Suggest he get into codepemdents anonymous to improve your new relationship wit him if that is what you decide you want.
2006-10-11 00:37:05 · answer #5 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's in to you. If you really don't want a relationship with him, remind him again. This will probably make him want it even more. Just try to be as open and honest as possible, telling him you want strictly a friends with benefits relationship might be the answer.
2006-10-11 00:37:59 · answer #6 · answered by Mussmania 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the way it sounds is he is having women emotions meaning he gets attached even though guidelines were set. If you are not wanting anything but sex tell him again and explain it to him better and let him decide what he wants really. Just my two cents.
2006-10-11 00:36:40 · answer #7 · answered by apples2oo4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im thinkin he probably does want a relationship cause if the sex comes with no strings attached then he doesnt need to bullcrap around i think he wants to make more then harmless fun soo watch out
2006-10-11 00:37:14 · answer #8 · answered by mikey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he does.If you aren't interested stop now before somebody gets hurt.That's the problem with the friends with benefits thing.Somebody always falls.
2006-10-11 00:37:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE WANT THE SEX, THAT WHAT HE REALLY WANT, AS
FOR THE RELATIONSHIP THAT MAY BE NOT IN THE PICTURE
NOT RIGHT NOW. SINCE BOTH OF YOU START OUT WITH
JUST HAVING FUN.
2006-10-11 00:38:01 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋