I was just wondering because it can be so fustrating?
2006-10-10 17:27:16 · 26 answers · asked by green_eyed_sexy_bi*** 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hot guys have the option of choosing any one of the good looking girls so that is why they don't give a damn about what a particular girl thinks about them.
On the other hand, The ugly looking guys know that they don't have much going for them that is why they rely on what they have and that is there sweetness of tongue.
But I guess, there are a FEW guys who are smart yet sweet. So if you are lucky, you might find one of those.
2006-10-10 17:34:04 · answer #1 · answered by mysteryman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's frustrating because you're not following your heart, you're following your pants.
The good looking guys don't have to try as hard because he's got a wider array of girls to choose from. He doesn't have to work on his manners, his personality or even how to treat a girl because if you don't work out, there's a line that's already formed behind you. NEXT!
The "ugly" guys, or the ones that aren't as cute as the other guys, don't have a line of horny girls lining up to be with them, so they actually have to care what girls think and work harder to woo and keep them. They have to develop emotional bonds that the hot guys don't. It's a harder approach, but it makes you feel like a princess.
And here's where life kicks you in the ***: Because you go for the hot guys, you're more likely to develop self image problems because you can't figure out why the cute cute guy doesn't like you for you.
The real trick is to ignore the eye candy and go with the heart. The hot guy can look real ugly when you realize that they don't care about you or treat you like you deserve to be treated. Find someone who you can connect with on an emotional level and not a hormonal one.
2006-10-10 17:38:07 · answer #2 · answered by Michael_Combs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the assholes know they are hot and the girls will pretty much take what they are given.
The ugly guys can see what is most important, you, the person.
If you have a choice go with the ugly guy, you will be very happy you did!
Good Luck
2006-10-10 17:33:47 · answer #3 · answered by Pam of Ga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself what is "hot" and what is "ugly" you have too look to the inner person that is what makes a person beautiful and hot, the soul not the body it should actually read hot guys are ugly and "ugly" are hot. have you ever tried to date a "ugly guy as you say, if not try it you might be suprised, do you just want to get down cause hes hot if so its not worth it one day when you hit your mid thirtys your gonna run out of options to take a chance and see where things go
2006-10-10 17:45:56 · answer #4 · answered by archangel0376 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Because we have the pick of the litter baby, maybe if you were not some ugly, fat B**CH then you would get a guy like me! "
Sounds pretty F'd up huh? Well guys like that are so insecure about themselves and what they want and what they are themselves, that they have to act in a way that makes them feel superior. Sounds "Highschoolish?" well, its the truth, even at 36 yrs old, men can be cruel. I'm sorry SOME men are that way, just move on and someday you will find a man who loves you for you and only wants you to be you. THAT is how I feel about my Woman. Men should grow the F**K up and act real. or maybe, The legal age for men to be called adults is 40? wadaya think? Much love to you...sorry to be so harsh in beginning, guess I wanted to keep your attention. Sweet Dreams!
2006-10-10 17:37:29 · answer #5 · answered by hookiejr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's the natural process. "hot" guys, receive attention, because they appear more dominant and therefore attract women to them. The "ugly" guys...are sweet because they've been trodden on by everyone, so they're polite to any women who has the sincerity to talk to them. Men and women aren't ugly, they just need some help to look better...popularity also is a problem...a person can be popular but ugly, he still gets girls, the ugly guys just don't have any confidence...hence why they aren't attractive...but so is life...and it goes on without glimpsing in our direction.
2006-10-10 17:32:11 · answer #6 · answered by Kamikaze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't anyone look at personailty first anymore?????? Am i the only one in this messed up world that still does???
It doesn't matter if they are HOT, UGLY, SHORT, TALL, SKINNY OR FAT.....
ITS WHAT IS ON THE INSIDE NOT THE OUTSIDE!!!!
Everyone needs to look past the physical...
then maybe everyone will be happy because they found a great person!!
2006-10-10 17:38:43 · answer #7 · answered by YEP THAT'S ME.. 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
in a way that's kind of true. i think it's because hot guys know they're hot so they become a little too confident and the ugly guys are just more passive.
2006-10-10 17:29:27 · answer #8 · answered by Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not actually true. Sometimes to me, its the way a person acts and treats me that makes me think they are attractive. If I meet a guy I think is really good looking and then he opens his mouth and he's a jerk, then I dont find him attractive anymore. But if there's a guy that is so sweet and actually nice that makes him attractive to me.
2006-10-10 17:31:34 · answer #9 · answered by ffantasy1984 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cos the hot guys know they can get what they want and go for it. while the ugly guys have got nothing else going for them beside being nice and sweet.
2006-10-10 17:29:13 · answer #10 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋