My girlfriend says she wants to be "a good girl"...she tells me not to do "certain" things...but when I do them she lets me and continues to look me in the eyes and say "don't do that"...usually with a smile on her face...what am I supposed to think about that?
2006-10-10 17:26:33 · 13 answers · asked by Hunter D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do what she says. She may be smiling, but it is still a crime most places to do "certain" things against someone's will. Even if they are smiling at you. Just stop, and if she wants you to do those certain things, she is going to have to ask for it. (if it's innocent, you can make it a game and tell her to beg you... big turn on!) But first... Please don't do what you're doing. Myself, I have been traumatized in the past from just that. I didn't know then how to say no and mean it. I didn't know how to stick up for my needs and wants. This is partly why "certain" things with a minor are illegal and you can go to jail... even if you're a minor yourself... Teenagers, as mature as they seem are still minors because they lack full adult function of their brain. Please obey her wishes. No means no. The words are the important thing here.
2006-10-10 17:34:12 · answer #1 · answered by jennilaine777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's role playing maybe. But then again, be careful because the "no means no" thing is serious, and if she wants to be funky, she can push the issue and you'll be in trouble with the law if you continue.
I say......stop when she says stop. If she wants you to go ahead and do it, THEN do it. Otherwise, she may get mad at you one day, or one time, and take that little bit of information to the nearest police station and file a report to 'teach you a lesson'.
Be careful. Women are tricky these days.
2006-10-11 00:31:23 · answer #2 · answered by lilac b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say if she wasnt happy with what you are doing you would know about it. Ummm letting you do what you are doing would obviously mean she didnt mind.
I think its some kind of game she is playing with you, Maybe it turns her on, or maybe she says she wants to be a good girl just to cover the fact she knows she is not. The smiles I think say it all dont you??
2006-10-11 00:32:43 · answer #3 · answered by tassie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is giving you the image that she is a good girl, but wants u to do the bad things.
2006-10-11 00:43:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is this hard to figure out. She wants to be your slut in the bedroom but a good girl out in public.
2006-10-11 00:31:37 · answer #5 · answered by Trinity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be straight up with her...too many times...peopel get charged with sexual assaults because the gal said no but meant yes...if she says no...step off and leave her be...when she gets confused...smile and say.no means no..if you want it..say yes...its safer for you in the long run
2006-10-11 03:03:44 · answer #6 · answered by bald_guy69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol Every girl is different but I find myself doing that too. And when I do it I'm playing to see what my man will do.
2006-10-11 00:40:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could be just playing with you, but you better be 110% sure. You don't want a rape charge or anything.
2006-10-11 00:30:43 · answer #8 · answered by BJ M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's secretly pleased with what you're doing.
Is this the ONLY thing she's sneaky and flirtatious about?
2006-10-11 00:30:48 · answer #9 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is flirting and doesn't mean what she says when she says don't do it. She is playing games.
2006-10-11 00:28:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋