But it is hard for me to belieave since I have body dysmorphic disorder and social anxiety disorder and can't really see why am attractive but this girl is like a model and am scared to look at since I think it may remind her of how hideous I am and how she could do alot better. But in reality I want her and I think she finds me attractive but just seems like she could do better and stuff and well it just gets so confuseing inbetween all of this that I can't really type it all. But can how I overcome this?
2006-10-10 17:24:13 · 11 answers · asked by a guy 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Don't look a gift horse in the mouth!! If you have a chance to develop a relationship, take it because the worse thing would be to not try and then never know what the outcome would have been. Display confidence and don't verbalize what you see as your problems. Apparently she sees some quality in you that she finds attractive! Good luck.
2006-10-10 17:36:59 · answer #1 · answered by jom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have found someone who looks past appearances. Social anxiety disorder is a b^^^^, but you have to take chances if you are ever going to recover from it. Maybe she wants to be a good friend, or maybe more. As you become friends, your answer will come. Yopu already told us she don't "bite"
2006-10-10 17:58:56 · answer #2 · answered by bob h 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In reality this gal has chosen to look beyond your disabilities and recognize the real you, It takes a courageous person to do this and you must count this as a blessing and you must also be brave as well. You will prevail I wish you well.
2006-10-10 17:35:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she finds the cool guys are all jerks and is tired of them
I had the same trouble and I learned the really pretty smart girls liked me, but it was too late.
2006-10-10 17:33:44 · answer #4 · answered by jekin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to let go....and just go for it. Everybody gets rejected at times and not at other times. The outcome is fine either way--just one is a bit more fun at the moment.
2006-10-10 17:47:07 · answer #5 · answered by retorik75 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on... may be you are not handsome... but sure you have another qualities... each person is special and different. I think that first you should be his friend... go slowly... I dont want that she hurts you... hang out with her more and dont be shy!!
2006-10-10 17:34:42 · answer #6 · answered by Flor M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is only skin deep. WHATEVER! True beauty is on the inside. Looks are not important at all. GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!
2006-10-10 18:34:36 · answer #7 · answered by i_wanna_know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
snap out of it good Lord theres a bunch of whinners on here
2006-10-10 17:43:25 · answer #8 · answered by blank 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything start from the mind.
Keep think positive, brother !!
2006-10-10 17:33:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away from the mirror!
2006-10-10 17:25:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋