i have 3 children aged 12, 8 and 3. they are all children of 3 different doctors i worked with (i am a nurse). i am married to a great man, he is a mechanic. He thinks all three children are his. I just always acted like they were his, and he has been a great father. I just wanted children from physicians, because i want smart, successful "genes". all my children function way higher than other children there age. They are all at the top of their classes and are really going to be successful, just like their doctor daddies. I am very glad I had the affairs and got pregnant by these doctors. my question is that should i finally let my husband know? my mother is pushing me to tell him, because she just found out about all this from my co-worker (long story).. My mom wants me to tell him. Should I? Do you think he will understand?
2006-10-10 17:21:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're a s.l.u.t
2006-10-10 17:23:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with "nwohioste". Your great man the mechanic must also be smart. A good mechanic is really hard to come by. Only thing he may not be to brite on is what he's married to. Maybe those kids are intelligent from living with the man that truely is their father. Lets just hope and pray they didn't get your cheating, selfish genes.
2006-10-11 00:28:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would sure give him the chance to run like hell from you an i pray to god you are never my nurse to be in such a position like that and abuse it to get want you want is just disgusting.And it blows my mind to think what your kids are going to go thro when they find out their mother made them because she wanted smart kids....but i would assume that you would think it was a smart thing to do hey .Some people have no morals and you would have to be one of them.oh and if you was wrong an they mechanic was the daddy i would laugh my butt off. You dont deserve an honest man!
2006-10-11 00:30:33 · answer #3 · answered by blue_eyed_woman_of_3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have deceive this man that you claimed to love for all this time. The fact that you cheated more than once to have "smart kids" says alot about your character. In a sense youre saying that hes not good enough to have kids with so then why are you with him. And to top that they all have different fathers WOW!!
He needs to leave you because you lack a a little something called class.
2006-10-11 00:29:22 · answer #4 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will be kicked to the curb.All these years?A nurse and you put your husband through this? Why didnt you marry a doctor then? Just coz they are docs doesnt mean the kids will be bright too.And what do the real dads say? Or they dont even know? Why3 different docs?
2006-10-11 00:28:29 · answer #5 · answered by stemo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. This secret should go with you to the grave. Your husband will be devastated and even if it does not end in divorce (which I find hard to believe it wouldn't) you would have deeply deeply hurt a good man. He would never get over it.
2006-10-11 00:24:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you're a dude having fun on here, or a moron.
I think you should tell him, get a divorce, and never remarry. Poor doctors, poor children, and poor husband. You have very poor genes.
2006-10-11 00:29:03 · answer #7 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are an absolutely horrible person,truly sick in the head,how selfish and abusive.you make me ill.its rather obvious that your children being smart (not necessarily intelligent) has absolutely nothing to do with you,i say break your husbands heart so he can divorce your evil witch *** and get a real woman
2006-10-11 00:51:20 · answer #8 · answered by seth s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU HAVE BIG DECISION ON YOUR HAND, YOU WERE
UNFAITHFULL TO YOUR HUSBAND WITH ALL THE CHILDREN
HOW COULD YOU THINK THAT THIS WILL STAY A SECRET
IF YOUR MOTHER FOUND OUT THOUGH A CO WORKER
IT BETTER IF IT COME FROM YOU. THIS WILL HURT HIM
AND DESTROY YOUR RELATIONSHIP. AS FOR THE AFFAIRS
YOU THINK THAT IT OK FOR WHAT YOU HAVE DONE, WHAT
ABOUT EVERYONE ELSE INVOVLED. DID YOU THINK ABOUT
ANYONE EXCEPT YOURSELF.
2006-10-11 00:34:53 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my wife told me that she would be on the wrong end of a good kicking so if before you do tell him get martial arts lessons
2006-10-11 00:24:56 · answer #10 · answered by bladesmanlou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
was you with your husband when you got preggo with these kids?..iIf you was and I was him I would drop yo but like a hot potato..that's trashy!!..can't believe you even posted that story..beause you ought to know what folks gone type and say..It's people like you that give women a bad name
2006-10-11 00:27:22 · answer #11 · answered by lil bit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋