I am 24 and have jsut gotten into the dating scene. I have had relationships but never really "dated". anyways I've been talking to this guy on the fone for liek a week now and we have had conversations that last 5 hours or more. SO yesterday I was talkin to him while I was in the car. and he said he would call later. he hasnt. its been over 24 hours ( the longest it has been since we met that he hasnt called) i sent him a txt msg and 2 emails. (cus he had asked me to send him sum stuff i ahd on my comptuer the emails didnt say anything) so should i break down and call??? i don't want to be clingy......and he sasy he wants to meet me and i am headidn towards his area on thursday ( he lives like 10 minutes outside of my city) what do i do????
2006-10-10 17:16:49 · 14 answers · asked by mischevious_pink 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
as hard as it may be you have to wait in this circumstance. with all the emails and txts, a call may scare him off. there is also a high chance that he wont either. its the classic we will catch up when im in town, but it never happens. he is scared after all he has said on the phone. anyway all you can do is play the wait and see game. if thursday goes by and he hasnt called. forget about it.
2006-10-10 17:23:19 · answer #1 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! First of all calm down. You've only know this guy like what a week? 24hrs is one day, just one. You're acting like it's been 6 months or something. The point of dating is that it's a time to get to know someone and decide if a relationship is a possibility or not. It's like a test or something. No commitment on either side. So once you've called him then the ball is in his court so to speak. Meaning wait till he calls you. Otherwise you just look a little desperate. Continue to date other people, go out with your friends, whatever just live your life. Don't stress.
2006-10-11 00:28:31 · answer #2 · answered by curiosity2113 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woah calm down...let him call u. that why u are 24 and havent dated...myb uve acted like this b4 and scared ppl away. worry when he doesnt call u ina week. dont over do it. he could be busy. just call thursday...leave one message saying hey u want to meet up or something...if u dont get a response...dont call or text back
2006-10-11 00:23:44 · answer #3 · answered by akihabro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people would say don't call, but if you like him, call. If you think you should wait, then wait. Do what you want, ignore the idiots that post on here (except me :P).
2006-10-11 00:20:39 · answer #4 · answered by futurefbiguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I agree calm down, but i've been in the same situation. My advice, don't sweat it. if he calls, he calls. If he don't, he don't. If he doesn't, then he's missed out on getting to know you. But, gave it time and see what happens.
2006-10-11 00:36:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should call him, but just once and if he doesnt pick up leave a voicemail so he can know that u called. maybe he wants to see if ur really interested in him too but if he doesnt call back then don't bother anymore and if he does then....cool. Good luck!!
2006-10-11 00:23:39 · answer #6 · answered by AV23 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
IT COULD BE MANY REASON THAT HE HAS NOT CALLED
SO JUST GIVE IT SOME TIME. BUT SINCE YOU HAVE MADE
THE EFFORT TO TEXT HM ALSO EMAILS. THEN THAT ALL
YOU CAN DO, IT TIME FOR HIM TO STEP UP TO THE PLATE.
IF NOT THEN MOVE ON.
2006-10-11 00:22:07 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure he is single?
And YES, call him out of the blue, maybe something happened
or maybe something you want to find out.
It isn't clingy.
2006-10-11 00:21:43 · answer #8 · answered by Keanu 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stop emailing/texting and thinking about it. You are already too clingy.
2006-10-11 00:22:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy might be all talk and no action.
Some guys say they will call and they never do..
Fallow up on him so you might have a chance to see him, If he doesn't respond, just assume he just isn't all that in to you. and move on
2006-10-11 00:21:36 · answer #10 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋