I believe 1 should only have sex with 1 person who they found as a soul mate and no one else. And no i am not talking about sex before or after marriage, i am taking about you giving your virginity (and also the other person to you) to the one person you love and only have sex with him/her.
Whats going on with the world today...everyones just about having sex with one guy, then ohh no i broke up, then next guy, then oh nooo i broke up!! then next guy! At least thats how most of the girls i met think like.
I am however a virgin, and 21. I have chosen to be one, and believe me i have and still do, have my chances to lose it (not hard in a world full of sluts or just girls that want you). But i want to just be with one girl, and her to be only with just me.
Am i asking for too much??? Have i lost my mind?
I will assume i will just hear rude remarks from the usual yahoo answerer's who just come on here to make fun of others.
2006-10-10 16:50:19 · 10 answers · asked by DudeWantsAnswers 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you're asking too much. I'm only a little younger but I'm in the same position, and I agree...I think all that sex can cheapen a body. Why do it with leftovers when you can save your stomach for the main course?
2006-10-10 16:53:59 · answer #1 · answered by Dumblydore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I commend you for doing and saying something like that. Todays youth has lost all sense of reality. I think it is a personal choice for people over the age of 21. If you cant afford to pay for the bed and place that you sleep with someone in yourself then you are still just a baby living in grown up world.
2006-10-11 00:03:24 · answer #2 · answered by Twilla97 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be proud of what you have chocen. I see the young people now haveing sex at a very young age. It is more like a handshake than making love. There is very little feeling that goes along with the act.
The only reason there are Sexually transmitted diseases and things ilke AiDS and herpes is people haveing many partners.
If all humans would mate with one partner.
I applaud you. and may God bless you with a wonderful woman.
2006-10-11 00:02:25 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold on to what you believe is right, for you are right in believing that you should give yourself to one person. In todays world it is hard to remember that, but have faith. You will find who you were meant to be with. And when you truly feel like you have lost your mind, realize that you are the only one who has a level mind left in this wacky world:-)
2006-10-11 00:03:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur not asking for to much or being foolish. u just want to find that perfect someone and fall in love. U want the real deal and nothing else. The world is getting crazier and crazier. U should wait for that perfect someone that is waiting for u. Time will come and u will find each other.
2006-10-11 00:06:35 · answer #5 · answered by Sugar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a virgin too. I'm only 19 years old. All my friends have already lost their virginity and their "second" virginity and so forth...you get my meaning... Anyways, i admire that you as a male species still has his virginity..CONGRATS!! Its been hard for me too..but i keep thinking about that one special someone...so i am probly going to wait till marriage...wish me luck and i wish you luck on finding your "one". Thanks for reminding me that having your virginity isn't bad at all...
2006-10-11 00:04:14 · answer #6 · answered by YEP THAT'S ME.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to tell you the truth not many people think like that anymore. and the ones that don't out number the ones that do. good luck
2006-10-10 23:53:46 · answer #7 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude amen 2 that!!! im not bein sarcastic either. sex should be saved 4 that special person. thats the way god meant it. peace out.
2006-10-10 23:53:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. You r not a loser and u haven't lose ur mind. Everyone is entitled to have their opion and belief
2006-10-10 23:58:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I admire what you're doing. :)
2006-10-10 23:52:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋