my bf who lives at home refuses to go outside of the bedroom to smoke cigarettes or weed 'cause he's too lazy to go outside~ and doesn't want his 'rents knowing that he smokes weed.
well..the room is POLUTED with smoke! and i'm a non-smoker who despises 2nd hand smoke~with the fear of cancer.
and he said if i don't like the polution..then i should move out?!
how f-ed up is that? and how do i get him to quit smoking inside the room? or quit smoking ((period))?
2006-10-10 16:37:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Cancer
He chooses smoking over you. Why are you still with him?
2006-10-10 16:46:57 · answer #1 · answered by Earthling 7 · 7⤊ 0⤋
If he thinks he can contain the pot smoke and smell to one room, he is one ignorant fool. You can smell the crap outside. Dump the loser and move on. Don't run with the notion, "But I love him!" in your mind because a lazyass will always be a lazyass. You can't change people if they don't want to change. You can do better. Way better. If he really loved and respect you then he would smoke outside.
btw people who don't smoke tend to have more money and smell better. Just do what I do, date non-smokers. Nothing is grosser than kissing an ashtray mouth.
2006-10-10 17:01:50 · answer #2 · answered by buddhaboy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He obviously has no consideration for his health or yours. Why stay with a jerk like that. Go to a military suplus store and buy a gas mask and put it on in bed, maybe he'll get the hint. If not then I'd say it's time to dump the looser.
2006-10-10 16:40:02 · answer #3 · answered by missourim43 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you dont like it, that the second hand smoke is affecting you too. If he still doesn't listen, when he's smoking, throw water in his face. That'll put the cigarette out.
2006-10-10 16:40:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't bother.
If he thinks you should move out to avoid his pollution then let him decide
Get another bf. One who doesn't need to smoke and move out!
2006-10-10 19:11:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was me, his rents would mysteriously find out one day real soon. Start saying stuff like, "is that the cops at the door?" Make him paranoid while hes high. Start pointing out things that he does stupid because hes high. But his rents would have to find out.
2006-10-10 16:52:11 · answer #6 · answered by knownfelon 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell the parents! Let them try and get him some help. If he won't consider your health than maybe you need a new boyfriend.
2006-10-11 08:11:20 · answer #7 · answered by tessasmomy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dump him and be glad you are rid of him. he's an inconsiderate bum. Do you want to spend the rest of your life with that? It's divorce court waiting to happen.
2006-10-10 16:40:34 · answer #8 · answered by klarf 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He made his decision....he would rather smoke than accommodate you.
Now you have a decision to make....I would leave as he suggested.
2006-10-10 16:45:02 · answer #9 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can't get him to do anything. All you can do is decide if you are willing to stay, or go.
2006-10-10 16:39:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋