The Prophet said, "If a man Invites his wife to sleep with him and she refuses to come to him, then the angels send their curses on her till morning." http://www.islamicity.com/mosque/sunnah/bukhari/062.sbt.html#007.062.121http://www.islamicity.com/mosque/sunnah/bukhari/062.sbt.html#007.062.121
Notice, there is no exception for illness.
"No honey, I must REFUSE you, I am sick" = Automatic Islamic angel cursing in heaven.
What type of swear words do the Islamic angels say? Can you be an angel and also swear...I thought that was for devils and demons?
Islam is cool stuff...aint it?
2006-10-10 16:22:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
that sounds like a load of crap, like a sure-fire way to keep women under those 25 lbs of clothes with only a 1-inch eyehole. men are always looking for ways to be dominant...when will they ever accept equality? at least my religion, christianity, does that.
2006-10-10 16:26:05 · answer #1 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 2⤊ 5⤋
All hadiths you read aren't from Prophet Muhmmad, when the hadiths were being complied 200 years later, many people put false testmonies or inaccurate ones because of lost of memory and messeges being distorted do to being past down from generation to genration. If you want to insult Islam, go to the Quran, those Hadiths you have are not accurate or are poorly recorded or given by the hear sayer. thousands of hadiths have been proven not to be authentic. All Prophet Muhammad said came from the Quran,
Ps: if a muslim men or women is ill
they do not have to make Hajj
or Fast during Ramadan
With that said, a women doesn't have to have sex when she is sick
her husband would be wrong and oppressive to ask her to
the Quran tells men to treat women fairly
you see things in context to what is in your heart
2006-10-10 16:34:15 · answer #2 · answered by Muse 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
i think of the thought spouses shouldn't refuse intercourse to a minimum of one yet another for futile reasons is a sturdy theory. we are able to maintain that kernel of certainty for right this moment and discard the sexism of the day in basic terms before this
2016-10-16 01:37:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As an Atheist my only concern with islam is what kind of destructive message it sends to it's believers,like all religions. This is just one more destructive message among many,and a prime example of the power hungry sickness enmeshed in with religious dogma. And for the girl that answers that at least christianity gives women equality I have to say I'm afraid not, the church gives that equality as a choice,nothing in scripture does,it's just alot better than Islam in that respect is all.
2006-10-10 16:32:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 4⤋
Not because this hadith doesn't mention exceptions it mean no exceptions .. for example God asks us repeatedly in Qura'n to pray .. but there is exception for woman having menstrual cycle , mentioned in hadith .. You need to study about Islam more since Islam teach people how to be nice with their wives and husbands .. The prophet even said the best men are the best for their wives
2006-10-10 16:28:52 · answer #5 · answered by Kimo 4 · 4⤊ 3⤋
because in Islam, the Muslim has no other recourse to sex other than with his/her spouse. If his wife refuses him, she is pushing him towards a greater evil of adultery.
However, if the wife is sick, unable or unwilling to have sex for a valid reason, she is exempted from her duty for that period of time. There is exception for illness. If her husband still forces her, then that is rape and the man is culpable in a court of law. There is no blame on her.
A curse in Muslims is very rare and even if it is done, it's does not include swear words. Its more like "May Allah guide you Las Vegas Steve and if you refuse His guidance, may He damn you"
see? that's a curse.
understand now?
You really need to pull your head out of your *a*s*s* before asking your next question mate.
2006-10-10 16:33:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 5⤋
try reading more and you will see the same applies to a man too.
keep on going until Jesus-pbuh comes and then i will sit back and enjoy. oh all this is wriiten that these events -- what we see today -- will happen before Jesus-pbuh's return. and remember , only after the last Muslim is dead will Jesus-pbuh come and the REAL showdown will begin. then maybe all of them will really be watching other's fate from above.
2006-10-10 16:37:37 · answer #7 · answered by marissa 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Islamic angels are really demons and that is why they curse people.
So if she won't sleep with him then he is COMPELLED to go to prostitutes??? What about the other 4 or 7 wives that he can have, can't he go to one of them?? The logic is too much..
My wife doesn't feel like it or feels bad and so I am COMPELLED to commit adultery?? Can't they control themselves??
2006-10-10 16:31:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 5⤋
Guys, why don't we just agree to ignore hateful, ignorant, remarks? Why do we have to entertain these kind of blind useless questions??
2006-10-10 16:48:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
not that you care but for the interested among you.there are caviats and indeed sickness is one of them. so you are wrong.and the reason is so that she does not cause him to commit illegal acts outside his marriage.only the wise can grasp such a statement.sorry you had to ask.
2006-10-10 16:29:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 4⤋