Hi i am 22 years old . and single . I can't find the right one . I am very nice. and very caring and sweet. But..I have on problom I am single . And i can't find the right guy for me . and guy seem they don't like big . I am see these good looking guys with these girls that are a size 0 what is up with that . Why don't guys Date Plus size women . Yea, sometimes i see these Plus size women with the cute guys too . but i don't know how they get them . I thought about giving -up dating alltogther . That okay i guess . I feel that i am going be alone forever . and i don't know what to do !!! I am very Cute . and i love my self and all. But i like to have someone I can share this love with . So help!!!! How can find the right one ?
2006-10-10 16:18:37 · 27 answers · asked by Nichole R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to meet this guy looking for BBW's (Big Beautiful Women)
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2006-10-10 16:22:09 · answer #1 · answered by captn_carrot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're a cute plus size lady, then men might be less inclined to approach you because either they are shy or they are superficial jerks who only like size 0 women. But, the best thing you can do now is to start talking to men that you are interested in. Be the first to make the approach. Show them that you have a good personality and that you are fun to be around with. Once when they like you, then you can bring the relationship to the next level. If you try this repeatedly without any success, then you have two options: Lose weight or stop looking. Of course, nobody should ever quit. Good luck!
2006-10-11 02:51:02 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Main Event 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey hun im another plus size women and i know what its like but dont give up on dating ur only 22 so am i when u stop looking or trying hard enough u will find the right guy some guys all they care about is their ego and others dont even care that much because of the society they grew up in. trust me there r many guys who love bigger women cause there is more cushion for the pushin lol
2006-10-10 23:23:06 · answer #3 · answered by creed_1120 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't want to date a guy that was so shallow that my weight mattered to him. Certainly there has to be some physical attraction but looks aren't everything. You can marry some guy that is great looking but an a$$ so what do you have when he's 80 cause lets face it old people are ugly, you end up with an ugly old a$$. Personality is truly where it's at. A wonderful personality can make a very unattractive person very attractive!
2006-10-10 23:23:25 · answer #4 · answered by bratgirl1965 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most plus size women who land the good looking guys have a dynamite personality. Speaking from experience in that area you have to be outgoing and funny but it has to be natural. Guys like girls who come up to them and talk to them whether they know them or not. Put yourself out there a few times and you will find that after a while it becomes natural and guys will respond to that.
2006-10-10 23:25:23 · answer #5 · answered by Twilla97 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dear, I'm not too much older than you, but it's been my experience that 'cute' isn't everything!! You have to look beyond that girl! I'm married now so I'm not looking, but I've learned enough to know that a relationship that is meaningful has nothing to do with the way you look! There are wonderful men out there that might want the same chance you're wanting, but have the same doubts and fears you do. Give them a chance!
2006-10-10 23:22:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up Im 39 and been with my boyfreind for 7yrs we met at work it startedas just freinds because I was with someone else at the time.He seen how unhappy I was so when Iwas ready to leave he was ther to help as a freind. We built it up from there.But before the one Iwas unhappy with came along a was alone for many years.So when you do meet some date dont go for the one make sure you be happy with him.Oh by way I'm over 300lb.
2006-10-10 23:46:07 · answer #7 · answered by sweetcheeks39@verizon.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let me ask you the same question then. Would you date a larger man? Maybe even a plain at first look one? You seem to put to much on looks from what I have read. Try looking for personallity, rather then looks. Because if you do, you will end up with the most handsome sexy man you ever seen. I know I did.
2006-10-10 23:24:53 · answer #8 · answered by prophacyks 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking. No matter what you try, if men sense that you are hunting, they run like hell. I suggest that you do 2 things; expend more energy than you take in; learn ways to improve your self-esteem. Men want to be with someone who is interesting, so find out all the interesting things about yourself and some man will show up to help you.
2006-10-10 23:29:16 · answer #9 · answered by GORDO BLAKHART 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be patient...he's out there, I promise. My fiancee is far from a size 0, but we have a terrific relationship. I think she is the most beautiful woman in the world. And believe me, the more you get to love someone, the sexier they become to you, no matter how they look. So keep you chin up, and good luck.
2006-10-10 23:22:58 · answer #10 · answered by BAWAGS 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If a man cant appreciate you for the fatty that you are then you should move on. There is someone out there for everyone, trust me, I weigh over 400 lbs and have a triple nipple and recently fell in love with a hindu women wit 11 children and saggy breasts. We are in love and are planning a wedding sometime in April.
2006-10-10 23:22:51 · answer #11 · answered by Cali 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋