I'm another guy with a problem. There's this girl who i've liked since the 6th Grade, and I haven't even been able to talk to her. I feel like I should try something before it's too late, but I don't know what to do. I'm a pretty nice, quiet, shy guy. I'm always imaganing me with her in romantic scenarios. The problem is, I don't think i'm good enough for her (she's really cute, has a lovely voice, athletic, popular, and just about perfect). Also, I think she has a boyfriend. What do I do?
2006-10-10 16:17:41 · 11 answers · asked by Liquid Snake 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try talking to her, it doesnt hurt to have a conversation with her, i mean why wait?? its gonna be too late and your going to have second thoughts for a long time, so you should just face your fears and go for it, you never know... u should stay positive about the situation not negative
2006-10-10 16:21:26 · answer #1 · answered by teekapeek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first off NEVER think a girl is too good for you because I promise that I have never and would never think this about any guy I have dated. Now onto the more pressing problem, you are shy and quiet but that's ok this can be gotten around. What common interests do you have? If you both like to read offer to lend her this really awesome book you once read, or if you are more daring suggest that you should get coffee at Barnes and Noble. Or if you are more into sports take your younger siblings(or dog) to the park. The punch line is to just spend time with her. And if she has a boyfriend- no worries- no relationship is final(even marriage) so wait it out, you can be the shoulder she cries on. But if she is hurt don't rush her, let her heal a bit then move in.
Most importantly be yourself and try to open up a bit
2006-10-10 23:28:21 · answer #2 · answered by Melvina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you actual gain the courage to court her, I guess what you really need right now is a bunch of self-confidence by the way you tell your story I can sense that you have a very low self esteem. .and How do you gain confidence? be a socialite, in the right sense.. try to befriend anyone, regardless if boy or girl, share stories and the like.
Once you already have that air, you wont be scared to get closer to her and do it slowly, befriend her too for that's the greatest foundation for love. If you still can't start a conversation, do the old way, write her a letter and express what you want to say. Don't compare yourself with her to lessen your insecurities and remember that even the most seemingly perfect girl in this world has weakness too and that makes her human.
If she's taken, then wait until she became available, if she doesn't became available then may be you two were not destined to be. Don't lose hope and give up..not unless she's married! Goodluck!
2006-10-10 23:33:33 · answer #3 · answered by Creine_Athena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly she is not too good for you. Everyone is a human being & no person is better than another. You should just walk up to her & start a conversation. If you dont you will always regret it & constantly think what might have been.. do you want to live with regrets like that? Worst that could happen is she wants nothing to do with you but at least you would have given it a try its better to do that then never know. You sound like you could make an amazing bf. I think you should just one day walk up to her & say 'Hi how has your day been?" go from there just be yourself & try not to be scared.
2006-10-10 23:23:44 · answer #4 · answered by sexcee_sinorita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your problem is just to talk to her, youve got to gather enough courage to approach her. Oh hey, does she knows you too? If it is so just talk casually to her, like if she's in a cafeteria ask "hi! what are gonna eat today?" or smile and say "hi" whenever you see her. You'll be friends eventually. Who knows, she might like you too =D
2006-10-10 23:23:15 · answer #5 · answered by sundaesoda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off all quit thinking that you're not good enough for her, and no ones perfect, and as for the boyfriend find out and then if she doesn't ask her out, what's the worst that could happen?
2006-10-10 23:23:48 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her the best you can. Little things, like the weather, your teachers, other students, whatever. Keep it light. if that works out alright, when you feel like you can ask her on a date, do it. Best wishes.
2006-10-10 23:21:57 · answer #7 · answered by Daniel M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres more then 1 person out there for you, you just gotta find that person, If you feel like youd regret not talking to her 10 years from now, then get up off your *** and do it, so who cares if you get rejected...most people get rejected in life
2006-10-10 23:21:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her if she is willing to have a dinner with you.
from there you start off. when you have already been closed enough then ask her if she is willing to be your gf.
you never try you never know. no matter what repest her decision. good luck to you. :)
2006-10-10 23:24:41 · answer #9 · answered by yeron ng 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if your really up to it, then you should tell her how you feel, and hope that she understands and doesnt put you down..
2006-10-10 23:37:39 · answer #10 · answered by Psycho-Minion(Jeff Hardy Fan) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋