Does this sound pathetic?

Question

I'm fifteen.
Never had a boyfriend, date, etc,
I am nice and i'm not at all bad looking.
No matter who it is nerd, jock, whoever they are in a relationship.
What's wrong with me?
Help!!! I need advice, something!

Maybe I don't talk enough... Could that be it? But... I don't want to be annoying.

Answer 1

You are way too young to worry about your lack of boyfriend. Just concentrate on becoming the best person you can be. You don't need a boyfriend for that. I guarantee you will have tons of time for a boyfriend later.

Answer 2

No, you do not sound pathetic. It's sounds to me like you're reflecting on how things stand in your life. Actually, at 15 you're smart to have waited to have a boyfriend...the right one will come along and ask you out and hopefully your first experience will be a friendship that lasts throughout your high school years. Just because it seems like everyone else is in a relationship doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. Did you ever stop and think maybe the other girls your age are easy??? Maybe guys don't have enough self confidence to ask you out yet. And if your parents are good parents they certainly haven't raised a girl who chases guys or has some unhealthy need to be hooked up with a guy at such a young age. Continue to be your sweet, adorable self, study hard, (intellect is very attractive) when you go to college and beyond into the work world. Stay active doing the things you like to do, tennis? dance? swimming? whatever !!!You'll make friends and sooner or later some "smart" guy is going to ask you out! Remember you're only 15 ...YOU ARE NOT OVER THE HILL! Cheers !

Answer 3

The "what's wrong with me" part is probably what's wrong with you. Desperation isn't attractive, generally.

Take a look around you. I suspect you will find that most of the people you know who are popular don't really care whether a particular person likes them or not. The more they worry about popularity, the less popular they are.

Don't worry about how soon you get a boyfriend, get a date, etc. Yeah, I know that sounds impossible, but why are you worrying? Because you think you're not good enough? Keep thinking that and you will act accordingly. You may be acting that way already.

Try going at it the other way. Just enjoy yourself, and don't give a, um, darn what anyone else is doing. That doesn't mean "blow them off." But don't let THEM decide whether YOU're having fun.

Be nice to people--not because you want them to like you--just because you want to be nice. If someone doesn't want to be around you, it's their loss, not yours.

I've never met anyone who had a life who got it from someone else.

Answer 4

I'm sure there's nothing wrong with you. You're only fifteen, it's not really that big of a deal. If you are interested in anyone and you are shy about it then try to be a little more outgoing. Besides that, a relationship isn't something that you should get involved in just for the sake of having a boyfriend. You'll find someone!! Or maybe he'll find you. You definetly won't be alone forever!!!

Answer 5

There is nothing wrong with not dating at the age of 15. I didnt start dating till I was 16 and yet I still wish that I would have waited. You really aint missing that much when it comes to dating. Just take your time and dont worry about relationships right now. You still have several years to think about dating and having a boyfriend.

Answer 6

I'm 23 and just found a guy before him I didn't date either. It's okay.. don't rush it; your time will come. As the first person posted, I didn't care either about not dating/having a boyfriend; focus on more important things such as getting good grades, etc. And, again because it may seem as if everyone's doing something, doesn't mean you have to jump on the bandwagon..

Answer 7

Your only 15 and you already think your hopeless?!? No, everything is going to be fine. Nothing is wrong with you. Guys your age right now are just pathetic anyway, believe me! I wouldent get too worked up over it and just try to have fun. Your only 15 you have your whole life ahead of you, a whole life to date/love. Good luck!!

Oh yeah, Just a little tip; Sometimes when you completely give up hope that something is goint to happen then it will!

Answer 8

Eh, don't worry about it. It's merely societal pressure that's trying to convince you that you need these things to be happy or normal. It's not true, don't worry. Plenty of people have been happy single, and plenty of people are completely happy without dates. If you're desperate for some attention, just be patient. The right people and the right circumstances will always come around. It might not happen until college, but I assure you everything will be fine.

Answer 9

Doesn't sound pathetic at all. I was in the same boat once, and so were, and are many, many other people. You said you were nice, so just keep being yourself, and be positive. Things will work out. Fifteen is young, you have plenty of time for dating yet. So try not to let it bother you. Many hot celelbrities said they never dated at all in high school. So don't sweat it.

Answer 10

I'm 17 and I've never had a boyfriend. Its not pathetic, unless you make it out to be pathetic. I honestly just don't want a boyfriend right now, I've had a couple chances, but most of the time the attraction just wasn't mutual, I have kisses I later obsses about until I manage to forget them.

Answer 11

There is nothing wrong with you. Even though it may not seem like it, there are tons of people who graduate high school every year and have not have a boy / girlfriend; it is not because of their looks, it's just they haven't found a guy / girl that is boy / girlfriend that is their type yet. You will find someone. Don't worry. Fifteen is still young. You have plenty of time :)