what would you think if... a freshman girl went out with a senior guy in highschool?
and she's 14 turning 15 and he JUST turned 17?
is the older guy using me? because that's what i heard
but he's actually really sweet
although hes been arrested twice, just for underage drinking and being on private property
what do you think?
2006-10-10 16:09:40 · 18 answers · asked by Julie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you've picked yourself a real winner. The fact that you mention that he's been arrested twice makes me wonder if you already know the answer to your own question. You know he's a loser. Forget him. There's much tastier fish in the sea.
2006-10-10 16:13:49 · answer #1 · answered by ruby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was a freshman, I dated a senior....and actually married him. So there ARE some decent guys. But most of them are jerks who want to intimidate freshman girls into having sex with them.
If this guy wants to have a nice, platonic relationship - great. Tell him you've promised yourself not to have sex until you're 16 (or longer, depending on your personal feelings) - if he tries to pressure you to have sex before then, dump him FAST. If he respects it, then he's a keeper.
Good luck, and be very safe.
2006-10-10 23:13:51 · answer #2 · answered by physicsmom04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rebel yell.... in the mid night hour she cried more more more....
that was a song by billy idle in the 80's...... sounds like you have a rebel... i find rebels to be very sexy.....you will never have a dull moment....
i went with a rebel in high school.... he had a harley motorcycle.... was always in some sort of trouble with the police...
everyone told me to stay away, because it would not be good for me to have go visit him behind bars....
one year for halloween he dressed as an old black lady and took black/brown shoe polish and covered his body...
you are only one once.. go for it... i would not say he using you...
rebels tend to be very sweet..... and under age drinking is not a big thing, everyone does it...
take if from me who dated a rebel.. it is ok. and you have nothing to fear.... and anyways rebel usually dont settle down to soon or get married... so sooner or later you both will go your seperate ways...
sit back and enjoy the ride with the life of a rebel...
2006-10-10 23:17:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly once a guy does something theres chances that he can do it again and i dont think u should be a part of that lyfestyle. but i dont think theres anything wrong with that cause maybe he really does lyk u but be carefull cause u never i mean he is a guy. he can be using u but i think u should go for it as long as ur not blinded by the things he tells u and keep a watchful eye.
2006-10-10 23:15:15 · answer #4 · answered by janet556 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he's two years older than you, *and* been arrested twice? one of which was underage DRINKING? I suggest you forget him, and forget that he's "sweet", as he has "bad news" written all over him.
Ahem. Sorry for getting excited, just now. God bless.
2006-10-10 23:14:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age doesn't matter WHEN YOUR OLDER! But in high school sometimes it is a popularity contest! I say its fine if you went out with him but dont do anything he really begs you to do and you dont want to do it! Alright?
2006-10-10 23:24:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say it's really up to your opinion on him. You know him better than any of us. As for him being older than you, I don't think that's too strange.
2006-10-10 23:12:47 · answer #7 · answered by Ford Mustang FTW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was in high school i dated a senior i was a freshmen i don see a problem with it parents just have to trust their kids. its all based on your decison
2006-10-10 23:13:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a mother i would say you live and learn. your young and if you go out with him it shold be ok. just dont do stupid things like he has in his past. if it didnt work out thats fine its not like your married and have a family your just a buncha kids so go for it. have fun and enjoy your younger years they go by so fast.
2006-10-10 23:14:05 · answer #9 · answered by evilella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he might be interested in the you-know-what. If he's serious, make him work for you a little.
2006-10-10 23:13:47 · answer #10 · answered by Daniel M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋