my boyfriend and I have been dating for about 4 months when we first kissed.. is that normal? ( i am 14 yrs old ) is that to slow or fast?.. and it kinda bugs me how my friend is ALWAYS flirting with him! i trust him that he wont start to like her but im affraid that he will start to like her what should i do?
2006-10-10 16:05:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok i have been in the same situation you were lf he really likes you and acts like he does etc... then you dont have anything to worry about just dont act jealous and and take it out on him cause you could probably mess up a good thing etc..... just dont tell that friend what you guys do cause she could be jealous and wants what you guys have and ok tell that friend in a nice way that you have been noticing whats been goin on and would like it to stop. that friend of yours that is flirting with your bf maybe not be your friend just keep and i out for her.
2006-10-10 16:19:26 · answer #1 · answered by babygirl09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys are really young, and I know it sucks to hear that. Honestly, think of it this way -- you've maybe JUST started high school. 4 years. Than college, another (minimum) of like 2-4 years. That's a long time. Don't take this boy, or the next, or the next that seriously. This is your time for trial and error. It's really the time where you figure out what you like and dislike about relationships and lovers. Take your TIME, and if anyone says anything to you, don't listen. It's better to have your head on straight and feel confident about relationships than to be confused all the time because you have everything a mess. If it bugs you so much than tell your friend that her flirting with him, is really iritating and you want her to tone it down. Say you don't think she's doing it on purpose, but that she should realize when she does it. Also tell your bf so he understands and maybe can see what you're talking about. =)
I hope you take my advice. Good luck!
2006-10-10 23:12:01 · answer #2 · answered by xxxdarksakuraxxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it is hard when you have a boyfriend and you like him and you start to notice that other girls like him and you may feel that he may start to like them. Unfortunately honey, this is life... Get use to it now.. It happens to all of us. My suggestion to you is to not put too much into this boy. It is o.k. to like him and stuff like that but don't put your all into him. You are very young and there is so much fun out here in this world to have than to just focus in on one guy that is probably flirting with your friend behind your back anyway. It is normal. Just have fun right now, focus on your studies and some extracirricular activities.
2006-10-10 23:10:37 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Tee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is normal dont worry, no rush , and you should tell ur friend because trust me i had this problem before and my friend was mad as hell at me because i didnt tell her, u should just talk it out, its way more better, and if she was a real friend i dont think she would want to go with your boyfriend because that will be so slutty and messed up, so the best advice is to set it straight instead of beating ur self up over this, youll feel more relieved
2006-10-10 23:12:02 · answer #4 · answered by teekapeek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAY too slow. pick the notch up a bit. 4 months?? god, you have nice friends...i got so much crap because i waited a week. l0l. because you never know how long it'll last so you get all you can in. =]]
2006-10-10 23:09:35 · answer #5 · answered by trish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aren't you a bit young to have a boyfriend? Study hard and stay in school.
2006-10-10 23:07:11 · answer #6 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes truly into you then he wont fall for her, and if he truly cares for you then it doesn't matter how fast you go
2006-10-10 23:07:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋