I was engaged to my high school sweetheart,circumstances made us breakup a long time ago.Now I am almost 21 and we got back in touch about a year ago,we have been on again and off again and its gotten to the point where I just want to walk away from him for good but its so hard. Its like how can I stop loving this person? Anyone ever had a similar experience. The reason I am leaving him for good is because he wont stop destructive behavior(drinking,drugs)
2006-10-10 16:04:04 · 4 answers · asked by Sweetie1204 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whoever says "don't worry, you'll get over it" is in my opinion, incorrect. That's not true. Whether it's a death of a loved one, a broken relationship or a departure of someone who means something to you, the heart cries in all of these situations and God damn, it hurts so much. You can't get over these things if you truly love somebody... and a part of you wants to hold onto the memories forever...
But time moves on whether you want it to or not. It has no mercy for those who want to live in the past. It's up to you whether you decide to stand still and keep looking back and miss out on the great new stuff that comes your way cos you're too busy reminiscing... or you can keep your head up, smile at the old memories because its what made who you are today... and embrace the new things that come your way. Good luck!!
2006-10-10 16:55:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may never stop loving him....but make sure you know it your heart you've had enough of his ways....I had a love once and we parted with unresolved issues and he has since passed away...so there is like NEVER getting past the memories, for me......Good Luck!!!
2006-10-10 16:09:48 · answer #2 · answered by justmedrt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think thats what love is. When you can't let go of the memories. In the end, it's all your decision, follow your heart, find out what you want most.
2006-10-10 16:09:09 · answer #3 · answered by Stick Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You in no way forget your previous flame, i will in no way forget mine, it is going to be difficult, yet confident you will recover from her interior the top, and that i understand its difficult to have self belief so yet you will discover somebody else. yet i don't comprehend, in case you adult men love one yet another lots and he or she makes you so happy, forget approximately her mum and dad. i don't understand how previous you're yet i think of you adult men ought to be extremely youthful by way of fact different sensible her mum and dad does not be like that, so while you're youthful, then wait ! From what you have instructed me she is worth waiting for .....
2016-11-27 20:37:26 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋