I seem to be too serious all the time. Sometimes when people are just messing with me they say "i'm just kidding" because apparently I look like i'm taking them too seriously.
This makes me wonder if i appear to be an uptight person that is way too serious about everything. Is this a turnoff for women?
2006-10-10 15:54:41 · 13 answers · asked by TT M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know the feeling. there are people who can make a joke out of anything and they're pretty funny to me. i sometimes wish that i wasn't so serious and that i could see things differently and be less serious.
2006-10-10 15:59:50 · answer #1 · answered by ndyou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best person to ask is your bestfriend. he'll tell you if you're too uptight for your own good. Being serious ain't a problem, alot of girls get drawn to silent men....somewhat mysterious you know... You don't have to be the class clown, because women may just find you to be a "friend" material. However, it will be good for you to have a cool sense of humour (the kind that's just right, not too standup comedic type).
2006-10-10 16:14:39 · answer #2 · answered by zac8 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude I am the same way I have to thank God with all my heart he blessed me with me with a leo guy and he is always smiling no matter what,I am a server and it sucks because I think I stink at it because I am always so serious but it is because I am always planning something in my head or solving a problem or some thing just cannot help it if you find answer this let me know you just have not met the right person yet believe me, because this is the first time guy that has ever been so crazy about me I am aquarian him leo. love him love him.God bless
2006-10-10 16:07:46 · answer #3 · answered by lucky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy is always serious or seems to be, it's a big turn off. Women want a man that is serious when he needs to be but also knows how to have fun.
2006-10-10 15:57:19 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think it is a turn off at all. Just be yourself. I tell all my friends that I was just kidding all the time and they are not uptight. Now if you feel like you are maybe you can change the way you feel about yourself.
2006-10-10 15:57:32 · answer #5 · answered by nbubbyjak 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it depends on the woman. Some women want serious natured guys who wont goof off.
2006-10-10 15:58:21 · answer #6 · answered by rxtech05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is kind of an turn off. woman like man that can be serious and fun at the same time.u shold probaly loosen up because that might turn some woman.
2006-10-10 16:05:06 · answer #7 · answered by â?¥Ms.ToP nOtCh ChIcKâ?¥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like people who are serious mostly because I perceive them to be honest and reliable. If this is how you are, ur definitely a turn on for serious females. Smile and chin up!
2006-10-10 15:59:49 · answer #8 · answered by Milie88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nopez
some girls want a mature and serious guy instead of clowners who joke all the time and can't have a moment of seriousness.
2006-10-10 15:55:59 · answer #9 · answered by kpop_singer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lighten up. Life is too short to be that serious. Is it being too serious or depression.
2006-10-10 15:59:07 · answer #10 · answered by sharon r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋