I have tried to talk to the dad about this and he won't listen. He tells me that I'm just imagining things. I have written a letter to the judges office asking for a hearing. My daughter has problems expressing herself. She has a mild case of Sturge Weber Syndrome. Which is why she's in Early Childhood. Funny thing is... She talks at home, but her dad says she barely talks there. My DD has known this woman and her kids for almost 2 years now. So they're not new to her. I just wanted to see what you all thought about this situation. And I can see that the majority of you are getting the same feeling I am. That something is NOT right in that house. She got her two oldest boys taken away for neglect. And were placed with her parents. I can't afford an attorney. The school counselor tried to get something out of her about her stepmom and she was unsuccessful. Guess the next step is a child psychologist.
2006-10-10 15:52:33 · 5 answers · asked by Wisconsin Sweetie 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
omg get that child out.... even if nothing is going on better safe than sorry!! tell the father the same thing u said here. you tell him flat out that you dont feel that your child is safe in that house. you child comes befor anyone!!!
2006-10-10 15:57:40 · answer #1 · answered by wouldnt you like to know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would pop in un-invited to see what is going on. Maybe- bring your daughter a shirt or something that she forgot. If that shows nothing than you need to talk to the judge or whoever and see about setting up a different time for your husband to get her- like when he is acutally home. I don't know- I wouldn't trust this woman- especially if you feel something is seriously wrong. Remember- Mothers intuition is ALWAYS right.
2006-10-10 16:01:35 · answer #2 · answered by Tammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it does seem suspicious... I would not send my daughter a single more day to that household, until I know what's going on. Maybe you can even work it out with that woman. If she is neglecting your daughter, too... then I'm sure she will be more than happy, if you offer to have your daughter more at your house. There must be a way. I think confronting that person will be best- to let her know that you are onto her.... make sure you don't face her alone... have a witness.
2006-10-10 16:05:48 · answer #3 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how come she's allowed to go there when there have been other children taken away? I thought that there were laws against that! I guess I am just naive but why is that not a reason for them to stop her visits? It seems like you shouldn't even need an attorney.
2006-10-10 15:55:29 · answer #4 · answered by mkmomma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send your child to a professional, something is not right! Listen to your instincts! We are usually right even when we don't want to be. I would tell your husband that for now he can only see her maybe at his moms house or something like that. God Luck
2006-10-10 15:58:01 · answer #5 · answered by rye252000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋