Guys, when you are looking for a committed relationship with a woman, what are the most important qualities/characteristics you look for? (Realistically) What do you think women ought to know about the mind of a man?
2006-10-10
15:48:09
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gracexofxthexspider
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Family & Relationships
➔ Singles & Dating
What I mean by committed, if you don't understand the question, is the woman you would spend the rest of your life worshipping.
2006-10-10
15:55:56 ·
update #1
Also, Nicky dear, I'm not your 'bro' and I'm not a virgin. So shush while you still can. =D
2006-10-10
15:57:19 ·
update #2
Every man looks for something different. I'm a highly contradictory guy (see profile) and want the best of both worlds.
I want my woman
smart but laid back,
emotional but not insane,
deep but carefree,
head over heels for me but not lost without me,
philosophical but funny,
cultured but not spoiled,
well-read but outdoorsy,
mysterious but not cold nor distant,
spontaneous but trustworthy,
frank but not naggy,
affectionate but self-reliant,
touchy-feely but not clingy,
nympho but only for me,
and lots of other pipe dreams I'll never see!
Also, call me superficial, but I need to feel attracted to her. She doesn't have to be a calendar girl, just somewhat pretty. If she's not hideous, then the above qualities will have more to do with how the sight of her makes me feel than anything else!...Although it would only be humane to have kids who are better looking than I am. It really sucks to be so ugly you have no options, trust me!
2006-10-10 15:51:19
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answer #1
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answered by A Box of Signs 4
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I'm not going with the standard approach. It depends on the guy, and your ages...threes one answer if you said you where 20, another for 30, and another for 40+.
You can never start a relationship thinking "Rest of your life".
Us guys are simple:
If we are 20,2 separate cases (dickheads and nice guys)
Dickheads: we want good shagging, no nagging, and no "commitment" mentality; Nice guy: We have mentality of someone who's 30.
If we are 30(and mature), Brains, Brains, and non-flakiness, Shagging is important also(start thinking kids, singles at this age hunt for good genes). And last but not least...cooking.
If we are 40, someone to depend on, and know that they will be there...unless rich...growing old is the biggest fear of a man.
My 2 cents
2006-10-10 16:07:02
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answered by Dan 1
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I think that guys want different things at different times of their life.
Young ones want someone who is active, has similar interests, and is sexy in their own way.
When a guy gets to 27-40 (depending on the individual), he evaluates his life, and where he wants to go, and what he needs, and what he has to offer her. He chooses the woman based on that.
But what do I know?...I am just a woman.....
2006-10-10 16:20:22
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answered by gg 7
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Truthfulness and not saying exactly what the man wants to hear.I myself want a woman that is truly going to tell me whats on her mind without fear of what I would think.A woman has a mind with a brain also.
2006-10-10 15:51:31
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answered by lovely soul with insite 3
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i dont know if you mean casual dating, serious relationship or qualities too spend the rest of ur life with..
Good looks sure help, a funny caring personality, ability too play her roll as i play mine
Is not afraid to contribute to the wealth of the couple, not lazy, you know that kind of thing?
some things about "the mind of a man" is that he is competitive and craves attention
2006-10-10 15:51:45
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answered by Anonymous
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Personally what I look for in a girl....
1. appreciates art or music
2. appreciates me
3. remains cheerful in times of trouble
4. is a christian
5. physically attractive
2006-10-10 15:52:05
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answered by Rollercoaster 4
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Bro if your asking that question your gonna stay a virgin for a very long time!!!!!
2006-10-10 15:53:11
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answered by Anonymous
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no baggage is good , an ex hanging around , kids can be a problem sometimes, honesty, trust
2006-10-10 15:51:35
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answered by sonny 3
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men want girls that are not naggers
they like a girl who can do her stuff without them sometimes
a girl that is not nosy
someone kinda mysterious
2006-10-10 15:51:05
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answered by ethannadinemariel 2
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love, honesty, loyalty, reliability, trust worthiness, sincerity, easy going and she has to be willing to be the desciple.
2006-10-10 15:51:19
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answered by Anonymous
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