I was friends with this guy for like 6 months and then i finally gave him a chance... he told me he loved me after about 2 weeks and then asked me to move in with him the week after.. at about the 2 month mark he stopped talkin to me.. completely ignored me.. and acted like i just wasnt his girlfriend.. now mind you i was completely dumbfounded and wasnt sure how to react, but like every strong independent woman, i moved out and pretended HE didnt exist.. now he calls me about every 2 wks, What The F am i supposed to do.. he claims " he has alot goin on but he still misses me..." im just not sure what i am supposed to tell him.. please help.. oh yeah and the clencher is... his ex-girlfriend has recently started talkin to me and GUESSED exactly what he did to me.. the telling me he loves me and moving in and EVERYTHING!! BEFORE I EVEN TOLD HER!! so obviously he has done this exact thing in the past!!!
2006-10-10 15:44:53 · 15 answers · asked by stuckintheburbs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don’t bother to salvage this relationship. Why?
1. He said ‘I love you’ too soon, not reliable guy.
2. Asked you to co-habit with him for…you knew what.
3. Then ignored you completely after that.
4. He is calling you again because of his urge.
5. Ex-girlfriend has confirmed his ulterior motive.
Think about it carefully.
Wise up, ignore him and cut your losses.
2006-10-10 18:55:46 · answer #1 · answered by Cool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's garbage. Don't take his calls. Hopefully this was a lesson well learned. Date a guy for at least a year before moving in or marriage. And if you can't avoid talking to him for some reason, tell him you found out he did that to another girlfriend.
2006-10-10 15:50:16 · answer #2 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that he said he loves you after only two weeks is your clue here. I'm sure you're wonderful but it seems like this guy doesn't take love or relationships seriously. He seems to just throw those three words around like they're meaningless.
I'm sure a part of you cares about him, but he isn't worth the time. Just keep ignoring him, you were on the right track.
2006-10-10 15:47:54 · answer #3 · answered by CC 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like a yo-yo (wants to be with you then doesn't want to commit then wants to be with you...). Don't let him keep you on his string and wrapped around his finger. That's what yo-yos do. It will drain you emotionally, and you need somebody who wants you to be there...consistently. His ex-girlfriend already knew of this behavior, which is maybe why she's his ex.
Tell it to him straight. You can't go through this again and won't. I'm not seeing anything in your question that indicates you truly want to be with him, so just ask him to stop calling because you're moving on and he should too.
2006-10-10 15:55:04 · answer #4 · answered by Social_Butterfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so all you probably did became sit down there and watch a woman be a slut?? that isn't all that undesirable in case you weren't attempting to the touch her or asserting nasty issues.. i could be somewhat pissed if my guy did that yet to not the factor the place he could desire to be scared lol. once you bypass to golf equipment you ought to assume to ascertain crap like that, and positively what guy won't look? in basic terms tell her you're sorry for being somewhat of a pervert and you wont permit it take place lower back, if she nonetheless is indignant as her if a warm guy became dancing and exhibiting his stuff off could she look away? stable success!
2016-10-16 01:35:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a clue girl. U moved in too fast, u did not know him. He wants to keep u on the string. Move away and move on!!!! There HAs to be someone better!!!
2006-10-10 16:52:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm I think he done something bad like cheated or something and didnt want u to find out or tell u or hurt u so he just like let u go for awhile. DONT give him another chance u shouldnt
2006-10-10 15:48:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he didn't give you a chance at all i would let him go like you did he did it to his x maybe he has to grow up well you know what if you think you 2 can make it its all up to you .you can give it more time good luck to you
2006-10-10 16:02:09 · answer #8 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The word is "clincher" not "clencher". that error made the entire story completely incomprehensible to me. sorry.
2006-10-10 15:49:27 · answer #9 · answered by Big Rudy 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If he's done this before, then I suggest you tell him to leave you alone. You deserve better than that!
2006-10-10 15:46:48 · answer #10 · answered by marypaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋