i am in 7th grade and i know i sound pathetic but how do i flirt because it doesnt come natural to me like it does my friends
2006-10-10 15:40:32 · 16 answers · asked by KodyCuddleBiscuit 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u would know to flirt when u see or meet the rite kinda guy.. ur body would outomatically send out the rite signals to the guy .. if he is the rite kinda guy.. don push it far darl..and it would happen for the rite kinda age.. (i know ppl r bugging u with the age thing and all but its true) .....its not worth trying to flirt... besides, seems to me like u r not the flirting kinda gal... that means if u try flirting it would look odd.. jus be urself.. smart and sensible guys like it when a gal acts like herself than trying to pretend she is something else... besides guys don take flirty gals so much seriously....
and don get worried abt ur frnds acting like that.. if u notice am sure they would also seem fake and made up...
but a cute smile would always be nice.. atleast for someone to think that u r cute...
so all the best... u take care...
2006-10-10 16:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by mad'amCurious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't listen to the people that say "Don't worry about it, you're too young" or "Just concentrate on school." Your social life will have a huge impact on your life. You should start becoming comfortable around people while you're still on a level playing field.
As for flirting, its really simple. Well, it helps to be intelligent...so you can be witty and clever with your flirting. But the keys are...
1. Smile - It shows you're having fun. No guy wants a boring girl.
2. Make eye contact - Combined with the smile, this gives guys a good feeling. Especially middle school kids.
3. Be confident - This is probably the most important thing. Even if something goes wrong...don't show it. Make it seem like it doesn't matter to you, even if it does. Afterall, you're confident with what you are.
4. Be nice - Although it's okay to tease...don't make a guy feel genuinely bad. On tiny issues (him getting a lower grade, being late for class, never having a pencil, etc) tease him a little bit. Don't be annoying but do it so that he feels the need to win your respect back.
5. Spread it out - Don't flirt with one guy. Do it with EVERYONE. Do it with girls even! If a guy sees you flirting with another guy, its just as good as flirting with him.
Take my advice! And good luck!
2006-10-10 15:52:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're only 12 or 13 and if it's not coming natural to you at this time, you're not ready. don't move so fast, you have plenty of time. flirting will come at the right time. don't follow your friends, be a leader, get your head filled with knowledge first.
2006-10-10 15:44:59 · answer #3 · answered by shaglemongirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur way too young to be worrying about that. when your mature enuf for it u will feel it to be more natural. till then firget about it bc u may just wind up seroiusly embarrassing urself gurl, for real...it wiil come naturally when you r in high school or maybe towardsd the middle of it, besides u send off the wrong signals to guys it will get u talked about or worse.....kids can be cruel u know so just try to avoid it =)
2006-10-10 15:44:17 · answer #4 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don 't worry about it. You're a bit young for this sort of thing, never mind your friends. Concentrate on your studies and other interests.
2006-10-10 15:41:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say something nice to guy that you might know then walk away. Don't stand around or give him the opportunity to respond or say anything.
2006-10-10 15:44:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in 7th grade to, i know it is hard but just laugh at what he say.find things in common wit him and say hi to him every day.
2006-10-10 15:44:19 · answer #7 · answered by â?¥Ms.ToP nOtCh ChIcKâ?¥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to be able to be comfortable with yourself. dress cute and smile alot. try to make eye contact with guys and when they lok at you just give them a little smile. just act girly. dont go over your head either. dont change everything about you. you should always be yourself, that is for sure. dont ever change things about you and forget who you really are.
2006-10-10 15:43:38 · answer #8 · answered by foxy lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it! You're still young!
All right, fine. If you really want to know, just tease be playful. That's all I know.
2006-10-10 15:43:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the previous answers.
When it's time for you to flirt, you'll know how. :)
It'll come naturally!
2006-10-10 15:42:51 · answer #10 · answered by Jerry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋