Does hair really make a big deal with guys? Me and this guy had a cosmic connection recently. He called me?

Question

everyday 5 times a day begging me to go out with him. We spoke for hours on the phone. I gave in even though I was not feeling or looking my best. We had a 12 hour date. It started with dinner, then back to his apartment where we talked about everything until we fell asleep wrapped in each others arms. I woke up to breakfast being served to me. When we kissed, magic. The connection was tangible. He said so also. It was a last minute decision to go out with him and I had taken my braids out 3 days ago so I wore one of my wigs so I could be cute. I never thought to tell him. I didn't think it would matter. I was showering after we got home and readjusted my hair just as he walked in. He freaked. He stopped talking. He acted like I was an alien. I flattened and pinned my hair so the wig would fit. He later apologized. Said he was shocked. I looked bald. I was a little hurt by his reaction. He tried to make me laugh. I left alittle after. He has not called. Could this be why?

Answer 1

Well my guess is he feels bad about how he acted and isn't sure how to talk to you now. Maybe he thought of you as this wonderful beautiful person and when your look changed he wasn't sure if it was as deep of a connection as he thought prehaps he was really attracted to you as you were and when he saw you flawed so to speak the perfect image was no longer perfect. Who knows how mens minds work but either way if you like him that much call him, talk about it, If he isn't around to talk forget about him, he was probably only hooked on your looks and isn't worth your time. But you never know unless you try so good luck hope that helps. PS in my opinion real men are not that big on hair that they would freak out and stop talking to a woman they really like. Good luck!!!

Answer 2

If that is the reason why he hasn't called, then I would say he is a shallow individual...But I don't think so. He feels bad about his reaction and is embarrassed. Take the initiative and call him! Hair is not a big deal with men. I wear braids and also a wig when I remove my braids. My boyfriend saw my real, unprocessed hair by accident one day, but he didn't care. So don't worry.

Answer 3

LOL! I'm sorry, but your situation is a little funny...

I think if THIS of all things is the reason why he hasn't called, then your guy seems pretty shallow to me...
I think maybe *you* should call him and flat out ask him...

Hope this works out for you, hang in there ;)

Answer 4

in accordance with how words of endearment have been used as a newborn, the mothers and fathers, the ambience, in usual communique, will ascertain how a individual reacts and treats others. In my component to the rustic, that's up north, the term "honey" replaced into used between married couples purely or a gay individual. somewhat some the girls in my intense college detested any style of brand, the only that have been given the biggest reaction replaced into "babe, toddler." it is of course a huge deal to her, you will possibly wanna tone it down slightly and clarify to her your place on calling women, "honey" formerly it gets way out of hand.

Answer 5

Hair shouldn't matter, I think you should find a guy who likes you no matter what you look like.
That guy is REALLY SHALLOW if he makes a big deal out of your hair.

Answer 6

yes im almost positive. go get your real hair done at a salon super cute and sexy then go somewhere he will be even his work if its public and say hi, me and my real hair would like to take you to dinner tonight. he'll probably laugh and say yes. worst case senario you get a no and then go pick up a hot guy with your cute hair.

Answer 7

If this is why he has not called you then he is a shallow person! Next time wear those braids!

Answer 8

yes, cuz you dint tell him that before he went out with ya