Please help. My poor little 14 yr old sister is dating a 17 yr old FREAK !!! I need info on how to break them up !
By the way The boy was kicked out of his school for drug overdose AND was fired from Kroger for threatning to burn it down!!! PLEASE HELP !!!!!
2006-10-10 15:34:03 · 12 answers · asked by amor vincit omnia 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not your job- It's your parents.
Anything you do will push her more into his arms.
your parents should fight this battle and you should be the supportive sister who can just say- "yea...I know..that sucks".
Why is it your job to break them up?
2006-10-10 15:36:27 · answer #1 · answered by Mommyk232 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure your parents find out without letting your sister know it was you. Befriend her when she is ranting about your parents intervention. Listen to her and let her talk. There is something definitely wrong if she is attracted to the really bad guy. Stay close to her. Tell her that you are there for her and understand why she would like him but that you are worried that his drug use and getting in trouble could hurt her and that she should be careful.
2006-10-10 22:38:46 · answer #2 · answered by BParker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're asking all the wrong questions and telling us unimportant facts. What we need to know is:
Does he treat your sister well?
Is she happy?
Is he happy?
Don't you think your sister can make her own decisions?
Even if you think it's a mistake, she'll learn from it. That's what the teenage years are for: Making mistakes, and learning.
It'll all turn out okay in the end. Trust me.
2006-10-10 22:36:56 · answer #3 · answered by That one guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah.. that's not good.
Tell your parents if they don't already know, and inform them of what's going on.
Talk to your sister about it, tell her your concerned over her.
But do what you got to do.. that just isn't good news at all.
2006-10-10 22:37:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunatly, anything you try to do will only push her closer to him. You can be there for her when she needs you, and she will before it is over. Good luck and God bless.
2006-10-10 22:36:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, sounds like you need a talk with your sister. if that doesn't work, come up with a plan. it may include using someone to pretend to be that guy's girlfriend so your sister gets mad at him and dumps him.
2006-10-10 22:36:14 · answer #6 · answered by sportzgurl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe yo need an honest word with your sister .Does she know about his doings?
2006-10-10 22:36:04 · answer #7 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that's nice that ur sister's dating a maniac...tell her what will happen to her if they continued their relationship, the possible death( guns), jail, sex, and and other violence that can really show in her college application...
2006-10-10 22:37:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to your sister... tell her what possible events (worst things) that will happen if she will continue her relationship with that freak...
2006-10-10 22:39:34 · answer #9 · answered by _♥w!ntER pr!ncEss♥_ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your parents involved right away!
2006-10-10 22:37:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋